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Bhaskar
Thanks so much!
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on April 7, 2007 at 8:21 PM
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Oh Hi Sunny
A Very Happy Easter to you and your family too.
posted by
Bhaskar.ing
on April 7, 2007 at 8:19 PM
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Thanks Kabu
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on April 7, 2007 at 11:00 AM
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MandaLee
Thanks
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on April 7, 2007 at 10:59 AM
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Chyrlann
You've said that so well. I agree with all you've said!
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on April 7, 2007 at 10:58 AM
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Sunny,
I found this post interesting and very well written. It is also an interesting subject. I believe (now in the latter half of the century of my life), stepping back to understand myself and move beyond those insecurities brought from childhood (which you so precisely stated), to become the whole, confident and secure adult before 'impinging' my securities upon any new relationship has been enlightening to say the least. The other side of the coin was with the insecure fellows in my life, for the most part their insecurities invoked anger and resentment because I would not participate in their jealousy games. They would provoke and I wouldn't respond leading them to believe I didn't care.
You also precisely stated the need to possess; very good. He's MY boyfriend, He's MY husband; as if a possession. We can possess no human. It is their free will to stay or walk and a gamble we must be willing to take with our hearts when we give them to another. I prefer honesty and integrity and a human who possesses these levels of character will make a committment and be faithful. It is our responsibility to set our standards in relationship to this degree if we require persons of these character levels in our lives. If we require less than these character levels, we must be willing to face the heartbreak or consequences of allowing less honest or lower integrity individuals into our lives. It is our choice and therefore our consequences.
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roadscross
on April 7, 2007 at 10:53 AM
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posted by
Amanda__
on April 6, 2007 at 12:09 PM
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posted by
Kabu
on April 6, 2007 at 6:19 AM
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Justi
Thanks
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on April 5, 2007 at 10:15 PM
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Enigmatic
This is correct. Jealousy comes about naturally, with just cause....it's the other type..with not much rhyme or reason that I'm refering too.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on April 5, 2007 at 10:15 PM
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Sunny
I think that the violent, "If I even catch you looking at someone else...!" jealousy, is obviously unhealthy - but if a man or woman thinks that the other person is spending too much time with, or paying to much attention to, another person, and brings it up in an honest, loving way, then that can be a healthy form of jealousy.
posted by
Enigmatic68
on April 5, 2007 at 10:10 PM
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posted by
Justi
on April 5, 2007 at 7:11 PM
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Afzal
Thanks
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on April 5, 2007 at 6:33 PM
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You are absolutely correct in your assessment of things here and I agree
with you .Good post .
posted by
afzal50
on April 5, 2007 at 6:33 PM
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