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Offy
well what is a sexual women suppose to do?
posted by
Lanetay
on March 31, 2007 at 1:20 PM
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Pat_B
well I won get graphic but I could close my eyes and pretend its a guy doing the dirty deed instead of a woman
posted by
Lanetay
on March 31, 2007 at 1:19 PM
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Oh dear
I don't think we would be worthy of the nun option...NONE of us..
Good one Pat~
posted by
Offy
on March 31, 2007 at 12:47 PM
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Sorry girls. You can't "become" a lesbian. You've got to be born to it.
You can behave like someone you're not - but at a terrible emotional cost. You could take holy vows and become a nun. But if these are contrary to your nature, you won't be happy.
posted by
Pat_B
on March 31, 2007 at 12:37 PM
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Justi
for the past 23 years I have lived a needy life wanting the love of a man for me and not for what he can get from me, but I want so much to please I get my heart stomped on all the time and I have tought myself to be strong and not cry and I am on the edge of cracking. Of course I dont mind if you pray for me
posted by
Lanetay
on March 31, 2007 at 11:31 AM
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lustorlove
You are walking on egg shells and you will blow up when someone complains that you have cracked one. You need to learn to respect, love and care for yourself in the way you want others to treat you. Don't remake yourself in order to get someone to have a relationship with you. That is too far out there. He should either love you as you are (I don't mean to be not nice or anything) or he does not love you. If you are terribly lonely you are not having a good relationship with yourself. You are needy. Do you mind if I pray for you?
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Justi
on March 31, 2007 at 11:19 AM
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FoliageGold
sorry offy if I miss quoted you
I try so hard to be a woman wants to give that special kind of love to, thank you for the offer
posted by
Lanetay
on March 30, 2007 at 6:12 PM
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lustor
What!? Offy is going to become a lesbian?.......... lustor, I hear you. Sometimes it's just downright baffling isn't it? If there's one thing I've learned, it's that we teach people how to treat us and believe me, I learned this the hard way and only just recently. Yes, I believe you when you say you're kind and loving, so am I. For me, I had to let this 'thought' go. Sounds strange, I know. But there's 'need' attached to this phrase. I have learned that when I decide to give, I give freely and with no expectations. Then there's not any negative energy attached to it, rather it's a detachment and the giving is freely and without adornment. I hope you understand what I mean when I say all this. I am lonely sometimes, too. I'm sorry. Talk to me if it helps. I'm here. --Joy!Mary
posted by
FoliageGold
on March 30, 2007 at 5:41 PM
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