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Afzal
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on March 23, 2007 at 5:37 PM
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Excellent post . Well done . I am grateful .
posted by
afzal50
on March 23, 2007 at 5:35 PM
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Shelly
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on March 23, 2007 at 5:15 PM
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Sunny, hahahaahaha
posted by
shelly_b
on March 23, 2007 at 5:13 PM
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Shelly
Hahahaha, you're not taking sides.
Just forget about it and go post some pics of corn or something. LMAO
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on March 23, 2007 at 5:08 PM
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Okay, LOL, I think I've said enough...and didn't I say I wasn't getting
involved? LOL I feel like I'm taking sides already.
posted by
shelly_b
on March 23, 2007 at 5:05 PM
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Justi
I agree with you totally. I actually hadn't been reading her for a long time. Just recently I started again, when she started leaving flirtatious remarks in his comment section. Also when I seen that when he commented to her with his basic "nice poem", "good post"....she would bait him to try to flirt with her.
We had a go maybe about a month back. She was very angry with me and told me that she could get him if she wanted him... since then I think she has been trying.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on March 23, 2007 at 5:03 PM
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Shelly
It's true, you can walk away for a while. It's one good thing. It's difficult though when you keep coming back to the same old thing.
I'm glad that you didn't leave. I know I've felt that way MANY times myself.
I've even told Afzal many times here that I was leaving because of the ways she was responding to his posts, or to his comments on hers, and instead of confronting about her, he would just not respond to her, or just say "thanks" in order to keep the peace.
If she continues...I really don't know how long I will be here. I can't stand negative people. I've had a big one as my friend in my teen years. It was enough to deal with for a lifetime.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on March 23, 2007 at 4:59 PM
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Sunny
I wrote about this battle some time ago. There is one way to win, only one way. Ignore it totally. This person will do anything for attention. They obviously want attention as much as the money. The money is peanuts in anybody's estimation. Ignore it, read everybody else. You are paying that person to aggrivate you. Don't read them.
posted by
Justi
on March 23, 2007 at 4:55 PM
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MandaLee
Thanks. I appreciate your thoughts.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on March 23, 2007 at 4:52 PM
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Sunny, at least with blogging you can log off and walk away...
I've learned to do that. Trust me, I know it can get frustrating. I never told anyone but I was ready to quit blogit when the last war was going on. Not only did the other blogger (who I thought was my friend) hurt me badly but I embarrassed to show my face around here anymore. But with the help of my REAL friends I decided I would show her that she wasn't going to bring me down. Thanks to my friends, I'm still here :)
posted by
shelly_b
on March 23, 2007 at 4:52 PM
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sorry
posted by
Amanda__
on March 23, 2007 at 4:47 PM
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Shelly
That's twice, I mean where I've actually gotten into someone's face about it. lol
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on March 23, 2007 at 4:42 PM
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Shelly
Blogging can get frustrating at times. It's just like real life. Hahaha.
I've only been able to have so much tolerance with people in the past before I reach my boiling point. Fortunately in real life....that's only happend about twice.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on March 23, 2007 at 4:41 PM
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Sunny, I know you didn't.
I've done the same when I was tired of it all.
posted by
shelly_b
on March 23, 2007 at 4:37 PM
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Justi
What I was trying to say is that I think that has a lot to do with it...jealousy.
She recently posted that high ranks don't deserve their rank...that they are not good writters...but spend too much time blogging.
Then she went on to contradict herself...taking out the names of all the top rankers but him.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on March 23, 2007 at 4:34 PM
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Justi
Thanks..I had wanted to mention that too...but forgot.
When he went to #1.... her interest in him and his posts picked up significantly. She started posting about us excessively again.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on March 23, 2007 at 4:32 PM
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Sunny
Actually I haven't a clue who this is but I can tell you I would be willing to bet if I were a betting woman that this is not about you at all. It is part of the package of Afzal becoming number one.
posted by
Justi
on March 23, 2007 at 4:30 PM
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Shelly
Everything being calm does not mean that everyone is happy. We've been dealing with this for months and months. How long should I have to hold it inside? How long do I have to allow someone to abuse me?
She herself in her latest post has said that I "allow" myself to be abused. Well, it's not going to happen anymore.
I didn't even actually create this post to cause trouble. I created it as a joke towards all that she keeps saying about me. To show her that she is not the only one that can post negatively about people and gather clicks on it.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on March 23, 2007 at 4:29 PM
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Sunny, sorry...it just seems like once everything is calm and everyone
is happy blogging again, something happens, you know?
posted by
shelly_b
on March 23, 2007 at 4:26 PM
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BC
They were current in fact one was from this morning, But like I said I want to stay out of it. They were not old emails...none of them
posted by
Offy
on March 23, 2007 at 4:25 PM
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Shelly
Thanks. I don't blame you for not getting involved.
I never get involved if I'm not directly associated.
I'm kinda surprised though that everyone is prepared for a war because I made one post...when she has been posting about us for months and there has been no war.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on March 23, 2007 at 4:23 PM
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Sunny, after the last big blog war, I made a promise to myself that
I was never going to get involved again. All I can say is that I hope you guys can work things out. In a rational way. Good Luck!
posted by
shelly_b
on March 23, 2007 at 4:19 PM
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Offy...I would like to see those emails.
I know that she has been contacting him constantly...over the months...initiating conversation with him.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on March 23, 2007 at 4:14 PM
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BC
Read my other comments to Shelly. It is getting old. I'm just tired of it.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on March 23, 2007 at 4:13 PM
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Offy... were the emails current or from months ago?
posted by
-blackcat
on March 23, 2007 at 4:12 PM
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Shelly
Have have tried ignoring it. I've tried and tried. It's still going on. You know I haven't said anything about it for a long time.
If it would go away on it's own...that would be great...but after 8 months now? And it hasn't stopped? Where do you draw the line?
Do you know that in the past she has contacted bloggers via email, to try to get them to side with her? (I have inside info on this...so I'm not gonna say who the contacts were)
It sickens me. I honestly wish she would find someone and move on.
Ummm... I can't lie and say it's because I like her (after all she's done and said?), but because it will give her something to do in life besides dwell on this and continue to try to make us miserable.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on March 23, 2007 at 4:11 PM
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well I don't know everything that's going on with this
and it is pretty sad all right...but I did read 165 emails he wrote to her expressing his love.Emails don't lie.. Still I would rather stay out of it..It's no of my business/
posted by
Offy
on March 23, 2007 at 4:09 PM
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for once, I'm out of the loop! Yay! LOL
Seriously, if it's the same thing as months ago.... it's just getting old. My only suggestion is to try laughing at it more... (easier said than done, I know, but it helps)
posted by
-blackcat
on March 23, 2007 at 4:07 PM
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I know it does. Just try ignoring it?
I'm surprised it's still going on.
posted by
shelly_b
on March 23, 2007 at 4:03 PM
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Shelly
Hahaha, aren't we due?
Seriously though. I don't talk about this a whole lot..it has been going on for so long. Just every once in a while it aggrivates the crap out of me that we have to keep going through the same old thing here.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on March 23, 2007 at 3:57 PM
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Ummmm.....why do I feel a blog war coming on.
posted by
shelly_b
on March 23, 2007 at 3:55 PM
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