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NewYorker_in_Sicily
those are few and far between, I dont know what happened to your friend, but I have been there done that many times, I know just am happy to be in his company when I can
,but thank you I will read what you wrote
posted by
Lanetay
on March 21, 2007 at 6:28 AM
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Considering what happened to my best friend two days ago
and which I wrote about two days ago (she's in VERY bad shape as we speak) my advice would be too cynical. I'll refrain from seeing any good in this man. You're too good to be wasting your time....move on to someone who wants the whole YOU!
posted by
NewYorker_in_Sicily
on March 21, 2007 at 4:59 AM
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rich
yes he has come back kind of at least threw a IM
posted by
Lanetay
on March 20, 2007 at 12:54 PM
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whysper
Now I have gotten so much help from every one thanks so much, but now to get the guy to communicate at least letting me know what is going on
posted by
Lanetay
on March 20, 2007 at 12:53 PM
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dolls
I finally heard from him, he said he has been busy, now I am acting nonchalant towards him
posted by
Lanetay
on March 20, 2007 at 12:51 PM
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Communication is the key to any relationship
If you don't have one, you don't have the other. Men are not bad communicators in general, they just don't communicate the same way as females. One of the beauties of developing a relationship is that you can learn to communicate in the most intimate of ways with another being.
One of the downfalls, is if you spend your time waiting for someone else to communicate, your life slips past while you stand there tapping your foot, ready to smack him in the head cause he forgot it was your anniversary.
posted by
Whysper
on March 20, 2007 at 12:50 PM
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proc
I am so trying to get to him, he has left me hanging now for 4 days and finally contacts me so now what?
posted by
Lanetay
on March 20, 2007 at 12:50 PM
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offy
how do I do that?
posted by
Lanetay
on March 20, 2007 at 12:49 PM
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afzal
he contacted me today and has been very busy, he left me to go home but it took 4 days to let me know
posted by
Lanetay
on March 20, 2007 at 12:47 PM
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Geez
Men! Bad communicators...I don't know I think I would just let it go...I find when I allow my communications to become as bad as most men....they call or email all the frackin time. Make him want ya baby~
posted by
Offy
on March 20, 2007 at 12:45 PM
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chyrlann
I have had such a hard time to trust because of previous problems
posted by
Lanetay
on March 20, 2007 at 12:45 PM
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scriber
he got in touch with me finally today to tell me he has been exstremely busy and on call, but he doesn't answer my email I wrote asking him where we are going with this relationship
posted by
Lanetay
on March 20, 2007 at 12:43 PM
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contact him even if it means driving all the way.to satisfy yourself
and know whats happening either way.No one should be left hanging.Break this pattern now.
posted by
proc
on March 20, 2007 at 11:01 AM
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Llustorlove
It is still not that long. I'd wait a week and maybe then send a brief note asking if he was ok. Hope you hear something soon.
posted by
Dolls-43
on March 20, 2007 at 9:41 AM
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lustorlove,
he'll be back. I know he will. Have patience.
posted by
richinstore
on March 20, 2007 at 8:27 AM
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Wait and have patience he might come to you again .
Why did you leave him without proper information about his whereabouts .
posted by
afzal50
on March 20, 2007 at 7:53 AM
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Learning to trust and letting go
is one of the most difficult lessons in life. Learn to trust and let go.
posted by
roadscross
on March 20, 2007 at 7:14 AM
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That adds a new dimension. Someone must have changed the number,
namely him. I think it is time to write this guy off.
posted by
scriber
on March 20, 2007 at 7:03 AM
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scriber
I tried his number it has been changed and he doesnt respond to my emails or IM's I am starting to worry about him, he left me with a 2 hour drive ahead of him and he wasnt feeling well, I cant believe he wouldnt let me know he is ok
posted by
Lanetay
on March 20, 2007 at 6:57 AM
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lustorlove--just call when u feel like it. It's actually your right. And
worry not about what he will think. Say, " Hi, thinking of u. Had a minute to chat if u want. "
posted by
scriber
on March 20, 2007 at 6:51 AM
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