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bwFrampton
is it the 3 year for the nap or is that just a excuse for daddy to nap
posted by
Lanetay
on February 25, 2007 at 11:57 AM
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Hey, lustorlove
Gotta go put the three year old down for her nap.
Take care and God Bless!
posted by
bwFrampton
on February 25, 2007 at 11:50 AM
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LOL
Thank you!
posted by
bwFrampton
on February 25, 2007 at 11:48 AM
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bwFrampton
I don't know the man you are, but since you gave me advice, I would be happy to reciprocate right back at you
posted by
Lanetay
on February 25, 2007 at 11:47 AM
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lustorlove...
And I, in turn, thank you for referring to me as a man! LOL
Now if you could just convince my wife of four years!!!
posted by
bwFrampton
on February 25, 2007 at 11:45 AM
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bwFrampton
thank you for giving me the mans side of things
posted by
Lanetay
on February 25, 2007 at 11:41 AM
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well, I did it again...
In the first few words, stick "you" in between "if" and "want". Sorry!
posted by
bwFrampton
on February 25, 2007 at 11:40 AM
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lustorlove...
I think that if want to be with someone, then you have that right. Period.
Life is just too crazy and too short to have it run for you by someone else...(just my opinion)
posted by
bwFrampton
on February 25, 2007 at 11:38 AM
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bwFrampton
you read what she did to us, if that was you would you have come back? I am being very aggressive is that wrong of me? I am almost your moms age but have been by myself for 23 years
posted by
Lanetay
on February 25, 2007 at 11:34 AM
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lustorlove...
Then, by Gum, go get him!
posted by
bwFrampton
on February 25, 2007 at 11:22 AM
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bwFrampton
yes she has had me basically to herself for almost 21 years and its hard to see me with someone but she feels like you I shouldn't be so available to him, but its hard when you are desperate and have strong feelings for him. We didn't talk for a couple of months then one day I invited him back into my space and he jump very quickly and seems different since the time I have been with him. He may be realizing what a catch he has with me. But the fish thing is I know there are other fish but I haven't found the right fishing hole. He is a man he can fish anywhere he wants and a women would be nuts to let that fish get a way that is why I am determined to hook him
posted by
Lanetay
on February 25, 2007 at 11:18 AM
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lustorlove...
Sounds like you have a lot on your plate, Lady...
I don't know...it seems to me that this fella has trouble committing - just an observation from your words. I think, if I was in your shoes, just keep yourself at an "emotional arms-length". Not saying that you should stay away from him - by all means, go out and have a good time if you can - but, also, keep in mind that those "other fish in the sea" as you pointed out, are available to you, as well.
As for your daughter, it may just be a matter of "time sharing jealousy". My mother will be 64 years old come June and, (even with me being a thirty-two year old man), I cannot say for sure as to how I would react if she met and was seriously seeing another man - I guess that I should have said that she has been a widow for four years now.
All I can say is be your own person. Do not let other people dictate your life. It may be that you make someone temporarily unhappy - or even angry - with your decisions in life, but anger and unhappiness do go away, in time.
Best of luck to you.
posted by
bwFrampton
on February 25, 2007 at 11:12 AM
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Renigade
I understand your opinion, but I told her she had no right to tell me who to see and not see, but I know how she is and if was to come here she would probably be very vindictive. She has never met the man, but she knows how I am about this man, and she says I jump when he says jump and ask him how high. She thinks it should be the other way around that I should be in control of him. She says I come across desperate. I just care a lot for him and he has treated me poorly in the past, but I am amazed he even wants to try it again with me. We are great together, but there are other fish in the sea, he doesn just need me. She says he comes to me when there is no one else to come to. Is he a good actor as he acts like he is nuts about me, when we are together. He accepted coming with me on a outing I am going on in two weeks and he has never just come out and said yes, it is usually I will try. We will see what happens when the time gets here. She says when he isn't with me he is with someone else. She says he has be labeled as pathetic.
posted by
Lanetay
on February 25, 2007 at 10:33 AM
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Did he ever cause her physical harm or threaten her verbally?
If not, then regardless of whether or not she pays rent, she does NOT have the right to ban him from YOUR home. No matter how old she is, she is still the CHILD, and you are the MOTHER. There is a certain level of respect that is expected in that type of relationship, whether you are roommates or not.
Holy hell?
I think baby girl needs to find another roommate elsewhere. She seems to have forgotten her place in life. Tell her that, while her opinion is welcome, anything more will be considered inappropriate and unwelcome. And creating "holy hell" will only find her looking for a new place to live.
YOU are the mother. Demand the respect that goes along with that title.
posted by
Renigade
on February 25, 2007 at 10:17 AM
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