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It never seems to get any easier
Someone said that time does heal the pain of someone's passing but I haven't got there yet even after two years. My thoughts and prayers are with you, take care.
posted by
DivineDiva
on January 31, 2007 at 5:48 PM
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Sorry you're having a rough day, Mia.
Hopefully, you spent a nice day, taking to the bed, eating chocolates and drowning yourself in the soap operas. (grin) That always seems to be a good remedy for times like this.
posted by
Joe_Love
on January 31, 2007 at 5:13 PM
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mia,
we always miss our loved ones even though they may be gone forever.
posted by
richinstore
on January 31, 2007 at 7:20 AM
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Wow, it doesn't seem like it has been two years. I know time heals to a certain extent but I'm sure the pain is still pretty raw for you, especially today. Don't hate yourself when you're this way. Wallow in it. Sometimes you need it. Tomorrow is another day. Hugs and thoughts, my dear!
posted by
Holy_Grail
on January 30, 2007 at 7:47 PM
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Grieving is not something you can turn on or off at will
it has its natural course in every one of us. Do not hate yourself for feeling like you do. When you feel upset, just think of the happy moments you shared with your brother and how he wouldn't want to see you like this. You deserve a big hug today
posted by
NewYorker_in_Sicily
on January 30, 2007 at 6:20 PM
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Mia.. its ok
just be
posted by
Blue_feathers
on January 30, 2007 at 6:18 PM
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I am so sorry about your brother's death.
What a horrible, tragic thing--I cannot even imagine. Please don't feel bad or guilty about the way you feel or don't feel or whatever. Just let yourself grieve in whatever way you need to. Thanks for sharing this with us, and again, I'm so sorry for your great loss.
posted by
ScottieBuchan
on January 30, 2007 at 6:12 PM
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Headaches seem to be par for the course on Blogit today.
I hope you feel better soon and I’m very sorry about your brother.
posted by
telemachus
on January 30, 2007 at 3:30 PM
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Just feel the way you feel...
Don't worry about how you speak or how you act or how patient you are or are not.
Not allowing yourself to feel the way you feel just leads to more negative energy. Be miserable for today, go for it! When you give yourself permission to feel this (even if any other day you'd feel like an asshole for behaving this way) there is some liberation in that and you can move on.
You're in my thoughts today, and in my heart as always.
Love you lots!
posted by
RachelAnna
on January 30, 2007 at 12:04 PM
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Mia,
I just wrote a post for you and I hope it will help.
posted by
lovelyladymonk
on January 30, 2007 at 11:30 AM
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Mia ...there just isn't anything I could say to make you feel better today but if there were words that would make it better then I sure would like to find them..I am so sorry~
posted by
Offy
on January 30, 2007 at 10:18 AM
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Sweet Mia,
Today is a difficult and painful day for you, sweetie. Don't be ashamed of the anger you feel. Don't hate yourself for feeling this way. No good will ever come of that.
I wish with all my heart that I could give your brother back to you. I know he's watching over you now and I know you will see him again.
But that doesn't help you today, does it?
You know, I still remember the very last conversation I ever had with my Grandpa. I told him how much I love him and that I'd see him again soon.
I never saw him again. But I know that one day I will.
In the meantime, I talk to him often...Sometimes out loud, sometimes to myself. Sometimes it eases the pain to talk to those we've lost. Try talking to Chris, honey. He'll hear you, I promise.
If you talk to him, perhaps you'll be able to cry at last and release your rage. Get it out and move on. But never, ever be ashamed of feeling angry or sad or even useless. We all have those feelings from time to time.
Feel better soon, Mia. If it helps you to know this, I'm crying for you today.
I love you with all my heart... 
posted by
lovelyladymonk
on January 30, 2007 at 10:07 AM
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Miaella - I remember when this happened and it made everybody sad on
Blogit for you. I hope your day gets better. Memories are sweet but remembering can be tough.
posted by
FreeManWalking
on January 30, 2007 at 9:46 AM
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My heart goes out for your brother . I am sad and sorry to learn about his
death.
posted by
afzal50
on January 30, 2007 at 9:30 AM
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