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posted by
Passionflower
on January 25, 2007 at 8:05 PM
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I think Corbin Dallas is throwing light on various aspects which also
requires your attention . Nice post.
posted by
afzal50
on January 22, 2007 at 6:32 AM
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Tenny.....
I have read all of your posts and I believe in tough love....so here it is.....
Are you crazy? falling in love with a married man, a "distant" cousin, no less? And even when he has told you he's not going to leave his family situation for you you continue to grasp for straws? The problem is that you currently ARE living for today....when you need to be living for the future...yours and your children.
Even if this man left his wife and family....what do that provide you with? Even if he agrees to marry you...what will you have? How many years will it be before he's whispering in to another woman's ear....."I love you, but I can't leave my wife."
You sem like a really sweet person...but you are being used by everyone around you. Yes, you're lonely...but you need to change your environment...get away from you in-laws and concentrate on the 4 lovely children........
As you think about this.....ask yourself this....."What would your husband think of what you are doing?" "What would he want you to do for your children?"
I pray you can work yourself out of this......seek professional help if you don't feel you can. But right now, it appears you are on a very slippery slope....that heads downhill!
posted by
Corbin_Dallas
on January 22, 2007 at 5:43 AM
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