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Unfortunately, I don't have to worry
about a woman liking me for my money--I don't have any.:)

posted by jollyjeff on January 19, 2007 at 1:11 PM | link to this | reply

Great Advice! If he's smart, he'll listen. :)

posted by Pat_B on January 19, 2007 at 11:34 AM | link to this | reply

That is so beautifully stated Sannhet

posted by bel_1965 on January 19, 2007 at 10:42 AM | link to this | reply

LOL Corbin
Of course he is!

posted by bel_1965 on January 19, 2007 at 10:39 AM | link to this | reply

Lady
several of them...I never liked them for that reason and it made him crazy that I could tell him what they would do before they did it.

posted by bel_1965 on January 19, 2007 at 10:39 AM | link to this | reply

Rumored
Happy Anniversary to you and Liz! 

posted by bel_1965 on January 19, 2007 at 10:38 AM | link to this | reply

Bel -
I see life's little moments in a similar way - I think of them as little gems. And everyone knows that gems are precious - so the little moments are too!

posted by sannhet on January 19, 2007 at 9:05 AM | link to this | reply

Bel.....
Sounds to me like he's lucky to have you for a friend.........

posted by Corbin_Dallas on January 19, 2007 at 8:27 AM | link to this | reply

it also sounds like your friend had some greedy ex-girlfriends!!!

posted by ladychardonnay on January 19, 2007 at 8:26 AM | link to this | reply

bel, yesterday was our 38th wedding anniversary..in a way a "big" moment
but what got us there was a lot of special "little" moments......

posted by Rumor on January 19, 2007 at 7:41 AM | link to this | reply

Jade
I hear ya!  We all like nice things but those things don't make anyone fall in love.

posted by bel_1965 on January 19, 2007 at 6:49 AM | link to this | reply

Spitfire
I agree, I have seen it so many times!  The problem is for many they ended trying so darned hard they find that was the problem when the person they were dating moves on.

posted by bel_1965 on January 19, 2007 at 6:49 AM | link to this | reply

Bel,
I think some people (male or female) just seem to try too hard. They try so hard that they overlook the fact that they may actually already be liked for who they are.

posted by SpitFire70 on January 19, 2007 at 1:23 AM | link to this | reply

My ex-boyfriend gave me a $350 necklace for Christmas.

When I broke up with him, he accused me of using him for Christmas presents.  I was like...you can have the necklace back.  Presents aren't going to make me fall in love with someone.

posted by Jadelynn on January 18, 2007 at 10:34 PM | link to this | reply

bel_1965
I need to go back for a "real" Maine trip. I just took a 4 day jaunt to Portland by myself in the dead of winter 2 years ago (I'm not bothered by cold weather!) and I LOVED that city. I'd love to see more of the state, and in summer or fall.

posted by Holy_Grail on January 18, 2007 at 8:37 PM | link to this | reply

Julia
He bought her a $600 leather coat.  While it was amazingly beautiful, I tried to discourage him in the first place and she absolutley would not accept it.  I like gifts but until you are sharing the bills, something that expensive would horrify me.

posted by bel_1965 on January 18, 2007 at 8:36 PM | link to this | reply

Bel--
So that just proves that all the good ones (men) are taken or in the process of being taken, right?? ;-)

Turning down an expensive gift? I dunno, I'd have to know what it was to know if I could do that. LOL.

posted by Julia. on January 18, 2007 at 8:34 PM | link to this | reply

I agree Joe!

posted by bel_1965 on January 18, 2007 at 8:30 PM | link to this | reply

Holy Grail
I've never been to Maine but I have always wanted to see it!

posted by bel_1965 on January 18, 2007 at 8:30 PM | link to this | reply

She sounds like me!  Ha ha ha...(Serously though, she does!) Now I want to take a trip to see her - I love Maine!

posted by Holy_Grail on January 18, 2007 at 8:27 PM | link to this | reply

Yep, she's probably a keeper.
I mean, being concerned over his financial well-being (not accepting frivilous gifts from him) over her own desires (accepting the gifts) indicates a woman who truly cares about HIM.

posted by Joe_Love on January 18, 2007 at 8:21 PM | link to this | reply

It certainly can't Shelly!

posted by bel_1965 on January 18, 2007 at 6:06 PM | link to this | reply

Money can't buy love

posted by shelly_b on January 18, 2007 at 6:05 PM | link to this | reply

I like her a lot Fourcats
she keeps him on his toes and she is good for him!

posted by bel_1965 on January 18, 2007 at 5:41 PM | link to this | reply

Hmmmm Naut
let's see what shall I call it?  Where should I put it?  Hmmmm maybe a podcast?  Can you do podcast with call in listeners LOL?

posted by bel_1965 on January 18, 2007 at 5:41 PM | link to this | reply

i would expect nothing less from a mainer!

posted by fourcats on January 18, 2007 at 5:37 PM | link to this | reply

bel
maybe you should start an advice column...

posted by Nautikos on January 18, 2007 at 5:35 PM | link to this | reply

Well said Taps

posted by bel_1965 on January 18, 2007 at 4:53 PM | link to this | reply

I certainly try Ody

posted by bel_1965 on January 18, 2007 at 4:53 PM | link to this | reply

I tell him that all of the time Presley!
LOL!

posted by bel_1965 on January 18, 2007 at 4:52 PM | link to this | reply

Bel
You're a very smart lady!  This guy is lucky to have you as a friend!

posted by Presley on January 18, 2007 at 4:52 PM | link to this | reply

string together as many unique and cool moments as you can

posted by telemachus on January 18, 2007 at 4:51 PM | link to this | reply

Bel
Big moments come once in a while and quickly go, but little moments add up to a great life.

posted by TAPS. on January 18, 2007 at 4:49 PM | link to this | reply

Oopss that was supposed to be Justi
thats what I get for multi-tasking!

posted by bel_1965 on January 18, 2007 at 4:42 PM | link to this | reply

LOL Katray
They hate it when I am right...and of course I am always right!

posted by bel_1965 on January 18, 2007 at 4:42 PM | link to this | reply

bel
Great post. Every man needs a woman who can be a friend to tell him when to turn left or right when it comes to other women. Don't you agree? LOL

posted by Justi on January 18, 2007 at 4:33 PM | link to this | reply