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Unfortunately, I don't have to worry
about a woman liking me for my money--I don't have any.:)
posted by
jollyjeff
on January 19, 2007 at 1:11 PM
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Great Advice! If he's smart, he'll listen. :)
posted by
Pat_B
on January 19, 2007 at 11:34 AM
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That is so beautifully stated Sannhet
posted by
bel_1965
on January 19, 2007 at 10:42 AM
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LOL Corbin
Of course he is!
posted by
bel_1965
on January 19, 2007 at 10:39 AM
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Lady
several of them...I never liked them for that reason and it made him crazy that I could tell him what they would do before they did it.
posted by
bel_1965
on January 19, 2007 at 10:39 AM
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Rumored
Happy Anniversary to you and Liz!
posted by
bel_1965
on January 19, 2007 at 10:38 AM
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Bel -
I see life's little moments in a similar way - I think of them as little gems. And everyone knows that gems are precious - so the little moments are too!
posted by
sannhet
on January 19, 2007 at 9:05 AM
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Bel.....
Sounds to me like he's lucky to have you for a friend.........
posted by
Corbin_Dallas
on January 19, 2007 at 8:27 AM
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it also sounds like your friend had some greedy ex-girlfriends!!!
posted by
ladychardonnay
on January 19, 2007 at 8:26 AM
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bel, yesterday was our 38th wedding anniversary..in a way a "big" moment
but what got us there was a lot of special "little" moments..

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posted by
Rumor
on January 19, 2007 at 7:41 AM
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Jade
I hear ya! We all like nice things but those things don't make anyone fall in love.
posted by
bel_1965
on January 19, 2007 at 6:49 AM
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Spitfire
I agree, I have seen it so many times! The problem is for many they ended trying so darned hard they find that was the problem when the person they were dating moves on.
posted by
bel_1965
on January 19, 2007 at 6:49 AM
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Bel,
I think some people (male or female) just seem to try too hard. They try so hard that they overlook the fact that they may actually already be liked for
who they are.
posted by
SpitFire70
on January 19, 2007 at 1:23 AM
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My ex-boyfriend gave me a $350 necklace for Christmas.
When I broke up with him, he accused me of using him for Christmas presents. I was like...you can have the necklace back. Presents aren't going to make me fall in love with someone.
posted by
Jadelynn
on January 18, 2007 at 10:34 PM
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bel_1965
I need to go back for a "real" Maine trip. I just took a 4 day jaunt to Portland by myself in the dead of winter 2 years ago (I'm not bothered by cold weather!) and I LOVED that city. I'd love to see more of the state, and in summer or fall.
posted by
Holy_Grail
on January 18, 2007 at 8:37 PM
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Julia
He bought her a $600 leather coat. While it was amazingly beautiful, I tried to discourage him in the first place and she absolutley would not accept it. I like gifts but until you are sharing the bills, something that expensive would horrify me.
posted by
bel_1965
on January 18, 2007 at 8:36 PM
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Bel--
So that just proves that all the good ones (men) are taken or in the process of being taken, right?? ;-)
Turning down an expensive gift? I dunno, I'd have to know what it was to know if I could do that. LOL.
posted by
Julia.
on January 18, 2007 at 8:34 PM
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I agree Joe!
posted by
bel_1965
on January 18, 2007 at 8:30 PM
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Holy Grail
I've never been to Maine but I have always wanted to see it!
posted by
bel_1965
on January 18, 2007 at 8:30 PM
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She sounds like me! Ha ha ha...(Serously though, she does!) Now I want to take a trip to see her - I love Maine!
posted by
Holy_Grail
on January 18, 2007 at 8:27 PM
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Yep, she's probably a keeper.
I mean, being concerned over his financial well-being (not accepting frivilous gifts from him) over her own desires (accepting the gifts) indicates a woman who truly cares about HIM.
posted by
Joe_Love
on January 18, 2007 at 8:21 PM
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It certainly can't Shelly!
posted by
bel_1965
on January 18, 2007 at 6:06 PM
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Money can't buy love
posted by
shelly_b
on January 18, 2007 at 6:05 PM
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I like her a lot Fourcats
she keeps him on his toes and she is good for him!
posted by
bel_1965
on January 18, 2007 at 5:41 PM
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Hmmmm Naut
let's see what shall I call it? Where should I put it? Hmmmm maybe a podcast? Can you do podcast with call in listeners LOL?
posted by
bel_1965
on January 18, 2007 at 5:41 PM
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i would expect nothing less from a mainer!
posted by
fourcats
on January 18, 2007 at 5:37 PM
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bel
maybe you should start an advice column...
posted by
Nautikos
on January 18, 2007 at 5:35 PM
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Well said Taps
posted by
bel_1965
on January 18, 2007 at 4:53 PM
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I certainly try Ody
posted by
bel_1965
on January 18, 2007 at 4:53 PM
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I tell him that all of the time Presley!
LOL!
posted by
bel_1965
on January 18, 2007 at 4:52 PM
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Bel
You're a very smart lady! This guy is lucky to have you as a friend!
posted by
Presley
on January 18, 2007 at 4:52 PM
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string together as many unique and cool moments as you can
posted by
telemachus
on January 18, 2007 at 4:51 PM
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Bel
Big moments come once in a while and quickly go, but little moments add up to a great life.
posted by
TAPS.
on January 18, 2007 at 4:49 PM
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Oopss that was supposed to be Justi
thats what I get for multi-tasking!
posted by
bel_1965
on January 18, 2007 at 4:42 PM
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LOL Katray
They hate it when I am right...and of course I am always right!
posted by
bel_1965
on January 18, 2007 at 4:42 PM
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bel
Great post. Every man needs a woman who can be a friend to tell him when to turn left or right when it comes to other women. Don't you agree? LOL
posted by
Justi
on January 18, 2007 at 4:33 PM
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