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I can't think of anything I'd rather do less.
Maybe I'm just getting old, or something.

posted by strat on January 15, 2007 at 6:14 AM | link to this | reply

hahaha
No. . , I don't think i would like to see any of my friends having sex.  But, to be truthful with you, I would have been a bit offended had she confided in me that she HAD seen some of her other friends having sex, yet "probably wouldn't" want to see me having sex.  LOLOL

posted by Joe_Love on January 14, 2007 at 6:54 PM | link to this | reply

nooooo

never, ever, in a million years, it grosses me out. I love my friends but that is a very private thing...however, some friends of mine have had sex in the same room at the same time....

i also think that's a little much too ;)

posted by quarterlifecrisis on January 14, 2007 at 7:18 AM | link to this | reply

Grosss!!! No, no, never, ever, EVER!!!!  I never want anyone to ever watch me have sex.  And I don't want to know that my friends or relatives even have functioning private parts.

posted by Holy_Grail on January 13, 2007 at 7:11 PM | link to this | reply

Mia
Well then she would have to be watched when she didn't know she was being watched. Hell I am still thinking about you being able to have phone sex in the middle of a crazy house full of people. I had phone sex this week with my guy in Michigan, but I was so sick I don't remember it...dammit!

posted by Offy on January 13, 2007 at 3:39 PM | link to this | reply

OFFBEATS
Want to hear the craziest part...my friend is so self conscious of herslef and sex, but she doesn't have a problem watching others...lol

posted by MiaElla on January 13, 2007 at 3:27 PM | link to this | reply

I don't think I would want to watch anyone I knew...heck I have a hard enough time thinking about doing it myself much less watching someone...Those things could drive this girl even more crazy...

posted by Offy on January 13, 2007 at 3:26 PM | link to this | reply

A_Norseman
I admit I've watched strangers before...watching friends would seem like a breech of trust

posted by MiaElla on January 13, 2007 at 2:15 PM | link to this | reply

Mia...

Onetime again raises an excellent point.  I think if I'm being honest I would say "sure, I'll watch."  Sex is a topic of intense interest to humans otherwise we would cease to exist, we are also visual creatures, so it stands to reason that we would want to watch something that is of intense interest to us, no? 

I do not however think we all like to BE watched, I wouldn't.  I would also add I have no desire to watch friends or people I know in a non-sexual way...that's just creepy.  Strangers is different.  For the record though...I do not own any pornography, I am speaking more of the natural impulse to watch rather than the physical application of that impulse.  Whew!  Sorry that was so long.

posted by A_Norseman on January 13, 2007 at 2:05 PM | link to this | reply

OneTimeAgain
That's why I'm wondering why people seem so negative about this (even myself) it's basically free porn...lol

posted by MiaElla on January 13, 2007 at 2:02 PM | link to this | reply

Decshak
Oh no...how embarrassing!

posted by MiaElla on January 13, 2007 at 1:55 PM | link to this | reply

ok.. now Im stopped laughing .. can post a comment
just a thought..why is porn a billion dollar industry since watching or being watched during sex is so embarrassing?     Having had that thought...I dont think I could enjoy sex being watched.

posted by Blue_feathers on January 13, 2007 at 1:49 PM | link to this | reply

no..no..no..no...
.....as has been said, sex is a private affair...

posted by Rumor on January 13, 2007 at 1:41 PM | link to this | reply

Mia,

The thought of being watched by someone whilst I'm having sex disgusts me.  My ex-boyfriend once asked if he could watch while I had sex with another man...I promptly told him that if he ever asked me that again, it would be the end of our relationship.

posted by lovelyladymonk on January 13, 2007 at 12:54 PM | link to this | reply

No. Thank you very much....Except that my mother once did my 1st hubby....

posted by WindTapper on January 13, 2007 at 12:50 PM | link to this | reply

Julia
Ick is right. Some people...lol

posted by MiaElla on January 13, 2007 at 12:24 PM | link to this | reply

Mia--
you shouldn't feel insulted, but SO GLAD they don't want to watch you. I can say with 100% certainty I'd never be a watcher OR a watchee. Ick.

posted by Julia. on January 13, 2007 at 11:51 AM | link to this | reply

Moxie_Maven
not sure about popcorn, but I hear beer is served

posted by MiaElla on January 13, 2007 at 11:37 AM | link to this | reply

Blackcat
well...I wouldn't want my boyfriend watching a really hot chick and her boyfriend getting it on...so I'm thinking that's why...lol...

posted by MiaElla on January 13, 2007 at 11:36 AM | link to this | reply

Sex is a private issue for me...I would never have anyone watch..
I'm sorry but that's just wrong!

posted by shelly_b on January 13, 2007 at 11:34 AM | link to this | reply

Interesting. Is popcorn served during the viewing pleasure?

posted by Moxie_Maven on January 13, 2007 at 11:32 AM | link to this | reply

No, I can not say that this has ever happened, nor have I wanted it to!

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on January 13, 2007 at 11:28 AM | link to this | reply

what???? ROFL
The answer is no thank you... LOL...  but did you ask why she wouldn't want to watch you?  Sounds insulting... LOL

posted by -blackcat on January 13, 2007 at 11:24 AM | link to this | reply

Corbin_Dallas
If they are busy watching, instead of doing, then I say they need to take notes...haha

posted by MiaElla on January 13, 2007 at 10:42 AM | link to this | reply

Hmmmm???
Just curious.....do they take notes or something???

posted by Corbin_Dallas on January 13, 2007 at 10:32 AM | link to this | reply

bel_1965
Good...so it sounds crazy to you too...and it's just not me...whew! LOL!

posted by MiaElla on January 13, 2007 at 10:20 AM | link to this | reply

OKIE DOKIE
Ummm I am sorry but I don't want to see other peoples flaws flopping around and I am damn sure nobody wants to watch my fat butt either !

posted by bel_1965 on January 13, 2007 at 10:02 AM | link to this | reply