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LOL....that is true....I agree....SoloWriter!
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 6, 2007 at 7:32 AM
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I love the pic....thanks for sharing, RckyMtnActivist...
and I agree with you!
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 6, 2007 at 7:31 AM
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Actually, attractiveness has very little to do with body type and more to do with personality. Men have a very bad habit of losing their personality after the newness rubs off. Honestly, they could try a little, rather than BE the wind.
posted by
Jenasis
on January 6, 2007 at 7:23 AM
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Hi Symphony.....I absolutely disagree with your friend....beautiful women
come in all shapes and sizes and many men prefer curvy women.
I had this cartoon on my refrigerator for years...I love it!
Ewe's not fat, ewe's just fluffy! 
posted by
RckyMtnActivist
on January 6, 2007 at 7:15 AM
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hehehe Thanks for sharing, shellyb.
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 6, 2007 at 6:49 AM
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wow...100? SoloWriter
I can only manage 30....LOL....must TRY HARDER!!!!!!!! (That was a note to myself)
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 6, 2007 at 6:48 AM
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Yes.... just as I thought...Joe_Love
she is like that though...come to think of it....she only likes to hear her own answers and go with them.
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 6, 2007 at 6:47 AM
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A-and-B
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 6, 2007 at 6:47 AM
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Thank you very much, OFFBEATS .....
I feel in a drinking mood today...I might go to the shop later and stock up...LOL...
Have you tasted the mint and caramel baileys...it is new here - Lovely...mmmm
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 6, 2007 at 6:46 AM
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When I visited the dating site I was on I was talking to a guy for the
first time and one of his questions was.."Are you curvy" he said that he liked curvy woman. LOL
Of course your health and the way it makes you feel is important too. 
posted by
shelly_b
on January 6, 2007 at 6:45 AM
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I find our big, cushy pawn shop guy rather appealing. Haha! Not really. I'm married. But I was usually thin all my life, and I had more energy before the babies. Situps every day I get the chance. 100 of them.
posted by
Jenasis
on January 6, 2007 at 6:40 AM
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No, she wasn't really listening to you.
She made her point, and that's all she wanted to hear about and discuss.
posted by
Joe_Love
on January 6, 2007 at 6:22 AM
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posted by
A-and-B
on January 6, 2007 at 6:18 AM
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Symphony
Good morning! I have the Baileys for my coffee and a shot straight up for you~
posted by
Offy
on January 6, 2007 at 6:11 AM
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That makes a change.....LOL...MiaElla
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 6, 2007 at 2:55 AM
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No she could not have been....Whacky
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 6, 2007 at 2:54 AM
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That sounds really interesting, Holy_Grail
I will come over and have a read a little later...(I will leave a comment) so you will know when I came over.
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 6, 2007 at 2:54 AM
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hehehe Pat_B
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 6, 2007 at 2:53 AM
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Thanks bel_1965 ...
I don't think she does it on purpose...
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 6, 2007 at 2:47 AM
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Thank you for your comment, ladychardonnay ...
I was really tempted to call you a skinny ass....hahaha...but, then i thought Na I might offend her....too late now though, I have said it....
thank you for your comment and compliment.
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 6, 2007 at 2:47 AM
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She is a good friend, A-and-B....she just doesn't have her priorites right.
No I don't think she has any eating disorders.
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 6, 2007 at 2:40 AM
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She is clueless.....strat
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 6, 2007 at 2:39 AM
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Excatly....RachelAnna
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 6, 2007 at 2:39 AM
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wow
I'm speechless
posted by
MiaElla
on January 5, 2007 at 6:51 PM
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She wasn't listening.
posted by
Whacky
on January 5, 2007 at 5:05 PM
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I've been on this subject all week! I'm seriously not trying to get clicks here, but I have a new blog in Health and Fitness where I've been talking a lot about weight issues and a friend who was making me crazy.
posted by
Holy_Grail
on January 5, 2007 at 4:16 PM
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There's a saying about big, bountiful women with curves...
the bigger the cushion, the better for pushin!
posted by
Pat_B
on January 5, 2007 at 2:32 PM
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She might be having some disease like bulimia, anorexia or ......
Can you leave her alone and move on to other friends?
posted by
A-and-B
on January 5, 2007 at 1:12 PM
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I agree she is clueless
but I am not sure that I would continue to hang out with someone who tries to make you feel bad about yourself.
posted by
bel_1965
on January 5, 2007 at 1:04 PM
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i have always been thin and have also made that statement
i usually say I feel fat - like bloated or something. but i have met some great men on the arms of bigger women and they never asked me out. everyone woman wants to be a "certain" size and no one can convince her otherwise. i have also been told by men that i needed to gain weight. i am not stick skinny but have always had a great metabolism. i stopped saying that years ago because a woman in my office got offended. but judging from your pictures you look like alot of fun - and to me that is everything!!!!!
posted by
ladychardonnay
on January 5, 2007 at 1:04 PM
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She sounds pretty clueless,
so you probably have to forgive her.
posted by
strat
on January 5, 2007 at 12:58 PM
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I agree for every fat or skinny woman out there..
there is a man that will love them just the way they are.
posted by
RachelAnna
on January 5, 2007 at 10:33 AM
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Thank you very much for sharing....and wow, that is great - good for you!!
TVBlogger, in the past, I have started dieting on mondays and given up on tuesdays, but, I am determined this time....I know that I can do it - with motivation...Thank you for the encouragement.
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 5, 2007 at 10:11 AM
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I've lost about 70 lbs
... is that about 5 stone? Not sure but I think 1 stone is 14 lbs. Anyway, I still would like to lose another 40 lbs. for all the reasons you listed. However, I have found myself saying things to friends larger than I am, "Oh, I'm getting so fat." I remember how that felt and now I'm doing it myself. Any amount of weight that is over the optimum feels lousy to the carrier of that weight. In my case, though I can't speak for your friend, my complaints have no judgement on my friend's weight at all. I'm not even thinking of it.
As for not listening... we always see an issue from our point of view. She heard you would be happier thinner and ignored the fact that what you said had nothing to do with appearance but instead focused on health and comfort... a much better focus and reason for losing weight. Good luck and keep at it. It is possible!
posted by
TVBlogger
on January 5, 2007 at 9:58 AM
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She has got it all wrong and she wont listen to a damn thing I say.OFFBEATS
I don't want to be stick thin...I want my curves, I only want to lose a little bit of weight (well, actually tone up) that's all.
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 5, 2007 at 9:36 AM
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Exactly, it's who you are not what you eat.... I-R-William!
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 5, 2007 at 9:34 AM
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ahhh thank you, lovelyladymonk.
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 5, 2007 at 9:33 AM
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See, I knew I wasn't going crazy, I thought I had made my point...thanks..
Nautikos...least you understood!...LOL.
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 5, 2007 at 9:33 AM
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Ariala
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 5, 2007 at 9:32 AM
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Yep, Talion, exactly.
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 5, 2007 at 9:32 AM
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I only want to lose a bit of weight to feel good, not look good - star4you
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 5, 2007 at 9:31 AM
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Thanks MariaMaria.
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 5, 2007 at 9:30 AM
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Symphony
You're exactly right when it comes to sizes..My sons would not give a thin girl two looks..They want them bigger and what your friend is saying is crap!
posted by
Offy
on January 5, 2007 at 9:29 AM
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Symphony, I can only say that I have known both big and thin.
Of these women the only ones ever coming close to me and my heart were the one's putting the family first and appearances second. It's not the weight, It's the W-O-M-A-N.
posted by
I-R-William
on January 5, 2007 at 8:47 AM
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Never you mind what your friend says, Love. You are a far more beautiful person than she will ever be because you know what is important on the inside.
posted by
lovelyladymonk
on January 5, 2007 at 8:07 AM
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SYMPHONY,
you said it yourself, she didn't listen to a damn thing you said. Completely self-absorbed, that lady! Don't worry about it, do your thing!
posted by
Nautikos
on January 5, 2007 at 7:48 AM
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SYMPHONY, I wrote a blog for you......
posted by
star4sky5
on January 5, 2007 at 7:46 AM
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SYMPHONY, I wrote a blog for you......
posted by
star4sky5
on January 5, 2007 at 7:46 AM
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posted by
Ariala
on January 5, 2007 at 7:18 AM
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SYMPHONY
Maybe she's not intentionally trying to hurt anyone's feelings, but her ideas are certainly mean spirited and not to mention shallow. She doesn't seem to realize there's so much more to life than the way we look.
posted by
Talion
on January 5, 2007 at 7:12 AM
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Symphony, a look isn't all.....Even there some fat people who wins in every
where there are many skinny loosers........I am going to write a blog, please read.....Love yourself with out doubt, treat yourself with respect, and be confident..
posted by
star4sky5
on January 5, 2007 at 6:58 AM
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Well said
posted by
MariaMaria
on January 5, 2007 at 6:53 AM
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