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Joe
She did apologize but I agree with you about the end of communication which sucks, but they need to work that out.
posted by
bel_1965
on December 18, 2006 at 7:17 PM
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bel_1965
I would probably just tell her boyfriend to stop communicating with me. If he had a problem with it, I would tell him to discuss it with his wife. In my opinion, she owes you an apology.
posted by
Joe_Love
on December 18, 2006 at 6:39 PM
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Timmy
You are very right!
posted by
bel_1965
on December 16, 2006 at 10:17 AM
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Maggie
It has to go, it saddens me to have to step away from a friend but I can't take what the alcohol does. I drink rarely and then it's no more than two drinks. I grew up with drunks, I won't live with them in my adult life.
posted by
bel_1965
on December 16, 2006 at 10:17 AM
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You can't talk to a drunk, bel. It's a useless cause. She'll call you if she wants your friendship. It may be better if you just wait her out. You're right, the alcohol must go first.
posted by
MaggieMae
on December 16, 2006 at 10:15 AM
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bel
Most drunks are that way
posted by
TIMMYTALES
on December 16, 2006 at 10:07 AM
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Timmy
Maybe that is it. I have done everything in my power to make sure that she knows exactly what conversations occur between us and except when she is drinking she usually encourages it. She gets hard to deal with when drinking.
posted by
bel_1965
on December 16, 2006 at 10:05 AM
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bel
It seems that you have something in common with this man that she does not and that bothers her.........gulp gulp. Don't sweat it.
posted by
TIMMYTALES
on December 16, 2006 at 9:37 AM
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Chrome
You know honestly, the more I think about it the more irritated I get and I think I am going to have to explain to her that if she doesn't do something about her drinking, I am going to have to step away. This is not the first incident of this sort it just happens to be the worst.
posted by
bel_1965
on December 16, 2006 at 6:50 AM
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Offbeats
That is a good point, I hadn't even thought of it.
posted by
bel_1965
on December 16, 2006 at 6:48 AM
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Bel
I think you handled the situation quite well. I hope that she does sober up and contact you so that this accusation can be resolved!
posted by
Butterball
on December 16, 2006 at 6:47 AM
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bel
I wonder if she will remember it when she sobers up...It would be wise probably to wait until she calls...and you're right...it is the season!
posted by
Offy
on December 16, 2006 at 6:47 AM
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LOL Corbin
I knew what you meant. My guess is she will get past her hangover and be sorry...but I have to decide how I am going to handle this from my end.
posted by
bel_1965
on December 16, 2006 at 6:37 AM
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bel...
(If)
posted by
Corbin_Dallas
on December 16, 2006 at 6:36 AM
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Bel
I she was really your friend....she will call........
posted by
Corbin_Dallas
on December 16, 2006 at 6:34 AM
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Babe
There isn't much else I can do. I don't have the energy to go on with constant drama.
posted by
bel_1965
on December 16, 2006 at 6:33 AM
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You took the right path. Ignore her until she sobers upe
posted by
babe_rocks
on December 16, 2006 at 6:31 AM
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