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Thank you all so much for your comments...
Azur, you are right as always. and damn so do I wish we could have a cupper and a natter.

posted by _Symphony_ on December 14, 2006 at 2:42 AM | link to this | reply

Symphony, people must follow their gut. We did that I think
and proved that our gut feelings were right.

 

But I too have been taken in by people, really taken in, and some people are masters at that. Online, there are always a few people who like to screw with people's minds. I have endured numerous sustained and insidious attacks here over the years, and had others pat me on the head and tell me how nice the attacker is.  But I think one can feel the undercurrents.  Like you, I never had a cross word  or any ill feeling from our banned friend - indeed, she was always generous in her comments and correspondence with me. All I know is that the comments she left the other day were not really her and I feel very sad that her demons  took charge because this place was generally like a refuge to her. I hope she finds another place...  Some comments do go too far and I had one a while back that shook me to the core but it was actually our banned friend who contacted me and told me to keep in mind that the person who made the comment was possibly unwell. It made me  change totally how I responded and to give care where I might have otherwise put on my boots to kick out....

Wish we could have a cuppa... 


posted by Azur on December 13, 2006 at 7:24 PM | link to this | reply

Symphony

posted by Ariala on December 13, 2006 at 12:40 PM | link to this | reply

If I've ever been unpleasant to anyone here, it was not intentional.  Far from that.  I may sometimes say things people don't think highly of, but I would never deliberately say things just to hurt others here and start a war.

Maybe I should just stay the hell away from here for a while!!...

posted by lovelyladymonk on December 13, 2006 at 11:15 AM | link to this | reply

SYMPHONY,

posted by TAPS. on December 13, 2006 at 10:08 AM | link to this | reply

Hi symphony...I thought for sure that someone hijacked this one bloggers
account...The swing was just too far!  Hope you are well :)

posted by mysteria on December 13, 2006 at 8:55 AM | link to this | reply

Symphony
What you see is what you get with me....  You may not have a face to go with the name, nor can you see my body language but I remain,

The Peaceful Poet


posted by Troosha on December 13, 2006 at 8:50 AM | link to this | reply

Hey Symphony, I don't what happened here? If I have to say some thing to
some one, I go straightto that person, once I said, my burden and pain is out.....So that clear my cloud.....

posted by star4sky5 on December 13, 2006 at 7:52 AM | link to this | reply

Some very good thoughts and points in this post
I think that most of the writers here are legit but there are probably a few we will never know and that is what is scary about the web. For instance many kids get hooked into chatrooms thinking they are talking to someone their age and it is really a pedophile pretending to be a young person. we can never let our guard down.

posted by scoop on December 13, 2006 at 7:51 AM | link to this | reply

I don't know how much faking goes on
I think more of it has to do with how small of a window we are looking through.  We don't see the whole person.  Still, I count my fellow bloggers as friends until something changes.

posted by SuccessWarrior on December 13, 2006 at 7:43 AM | link to this | reply

It is a shame Symphony

posted by bel_1965 on December 13, 2006 at 7:07 AM | link to this | reply

it is sad

posted by Amanda__ on December 13, 2006 at 6:18 AM | link to this | reply

There is still much good left here.

posted by A-and-B on December 13, 2006 at 6:08 AM | link to this | reply