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Please Expound on what you wrote, Solowriter
Do all women have a problem with finding someone to marry them or are you simply singling out black women? I happen to know several racially mixed couples comprised of a black woman who are happily married. What are you saying?
Also, I find it interesting that you put stipulations on what kind of black woman is eligible for dating. She has to be very, very pretty and very, very nice. Are these qualities germane to other races and rare in the black race?
I'm sorry that your date with the Asian guy went awry, but should this one experience prejudice you towards dating outside of your race?
Lastly, it seems as though you took the Asian guy's comment to be racially based when it could simply have been fashionsensically (I just made that word up!) based. Maybe your outfit didn't compliment you that well. Good and bad fashion happens to us all.
Thanks for the comment.
posted by
lenadiva
on December 13, 2006 at 5:58 AM
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If a black woman is very, very pretty and very, very nice, she could probably date any guy on the planet, but he might not marry her. That's the problem. The family. When it comes to men, it's a different problem.
I have never interracial dated, and I'm white, but once I went to a movie with a Chinese guy I'd just met, and it was too weird, because he insulted my outfit the second time he saw me. Woah! It's better to stick with the folks who are accustomed to you.
posted by
Jenasis
on December 13, 2006 at 5:40 AM
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I think men and women should have equal right in inter-racial datings.
A Woman can't be deprive of having a man of her choice whatever be the caste colour or creed . Good post. It's really thought provoking .
posted by
afzal50
on December 12, 2006 at 5:04 PM
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