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Wifey. . ,
wow!  That doesn't seem like a year ago!!  How time flies!!!

Your conclusion (about not wasting a minute of your time with those you love) almost drew a tear from my eye.  Very sweet entry.


posted by Joe_Love on December 9, 2006 at 12:07 PM | link to this | reply

Jacenta
Certainly faster than the previous year LOL!

posted by bel_1965 on December 9, 2006 at 5:05 AM | link to this | reply

Whacky
Thank you so much!

posted by bel_1965 on December 9, 2006 at 5:04 AM | link to this | reply

Thank you Offbeats
Yes, somewhere in all of the insanity I do believe I have found some peace.

posted by bel_1965 on December 9, 2006 at 5:04 AM | link to this | reply

bel_1965
This is such a heartwarming post.  I am still very happy for both of you!   That year went terribly fast, it seems. 

posted by jacentaOld on December 8, 2006 at 7:30 PM | link to this | reply

That was a great memory!

posted by Whacky on December 8, 2006 at 7:18 PM | link to this | reply

bel
Wow it has been a year...Reading this reminded me of the opening of Waltons Mountain...There is peace in that and I can see you are at peace...Good going I know it was a long haul for both of you...

posted by Offy on December 8, 2006 at 5:51 PM | link to this | reply

Corbin
after what I made him suffer through last night, I am not so sure Carl would agree with you LOL!

posted by bel_1965 on December 8, 2006 at 5:20 PM | link to this | reply

Face it, Bel.......
Both of you are very lucky to have one another.......

posted by Corbin_Dallas on December 8, 2006 at 5:18 PM | link to this | reply

Babe
Yes it has been.

posted by bel_1965 on December 8, 2006 at 5:14 PM | link to this | reply

Maggie!!!!!!
I was not in heat!!!  I was just happy to see him!  Tsk tsk Maggie, beneath that sweet and innocent exterior that you have lies a woman with a very naughty mind!

posted by bel_1965 on December 8, 2006 at 5:12 PM | link to this | reply

Naut
He gets away with a great deal because he is good about cleaning up after himself LOL!

posted by bel_1965 on December 8, 2006 at 5:09 PM | link to this | reply

LOL Julia
Ok I concede...but you knew what I meant!!!

posted by bel_1965 on December 8, 2006 at 5:06 PM | link to this | reply

Good post. All in all, you had a pretty good year

posted by babe_rocks on December 8, 2006 at 4:58 PM | link to this | reply

ooooh, bel, I remember this.  You were in heat.  Willie was on his way out.  Yeah, that was a hot night.  A great night when Carl finally came home from that dreadful war. Thank God for that.

posted by MaggieMae on December 8, 2006 at 4:55 PM | link to this | reply

bel,
what can I say! Any woman who forgives her man for trekking dirt across the floor is my kind of woman! But quite apart from that, I like your warm-heartedness and your down-to-earth ways - Carl is a lucky guy, and I bet you he knows it!  

posted by Nautikos on December 8, 2006 at 4:39 PM | link to this | reply

well I quote: "and my eyes were horribly red from having them waxed"--
LMAO. It doesn't say eyebrows now does it? ;-)

posted by Julia. on December 8, 2006 at 4:14 PM | link to this | reply

bel
Isn't it funny how we grow and yet stay together? I think having a family is the most important thing one can do, if there is the gumption to give it a go. I'm glad you two are doing well and I hope the next year is more fruitful than the last.

posted by avant-garde on December 8, 2006 at 3:48 PM | link to this | reply

Troosha
Thank you.  As tough as the time was for all of us, it did give us a new appreciation for the things that really matter.

posted by bel_1965 on December 8, 2006 at 1:06 PM | link to this | reply

Bel
First of all what a lovely memory but more importantly it would seem that you have since set your priorities straight - family, time together, a good life, and to heck with the "small stuff".  In some respects your ordeal and your husband's brave commitment has been a blessing.  It has shaped you both into (different) but better people.  Heartwarming story.

posted by Troosha on December 8, 2006 at 1:04 PM | link to this | reply

Thank You so much Katray

posted by bel_1965 on December 8, 2006 at 12:17 PM | link to this | reply

So true to season of joy and embrace of blessings Bel..
Wonderful, heart rendered post. This line: "I would rather have Carl's time than the overtime on his check" states the essence of love imo. Beautiful! Thank you so much for sharing.  

posted by Katray2 on December 8, 2006 at 11:47 AM | link to this | reply

EYEBROWS!!!!
Not my eyes Julia.

posted by bel_1965 on December 8, 2006 at 11:42 AM | link to this | reply

hard to believe it's been a year already, it seems like yesterday!
In your second paragraph...you said you waxed your eyes...um--WHAT??

posted by Julia. on December 8, 2006 at 11:31 AM | link to this | reply

LOL Strat
I would have been horrified to be on the cover of anything looking the mess I was at that time! 

posted by bel_1965 on December 8, 2006 at 11:29 AM | link to this | reply

That bottom picture should have been on the cover of "Time."
Glad yours was a happy ending, Bel.

posted by strat on December 8, 2006 at 11:25 AM | link to this | reply

Fourcats
As I tell people it was truly the happiest moment of my life. 

posted by bel_1965 on December 8, 2006 at 10:42 AM | link to this | reply

Good point Mademoiselle

posted by bel_1965 on December 8, 2006 at 10:32 AM | link to this | reply

a beautiful, touching post, it made my eyes hot. wishing you the very best
this holiday season.

posted by fourcats on December 8, 2006 at 10:31 AM | link to this | reply

The key for everyone, though, is not to give too much thought to all the moments you've already wasted ...

because you'll probably just end up wasting even more time, while you worry about it.

And then, probably end up driving yourself slowly insane, or something.

P.S. Very touching post, however. 

If you ever go temporarily insane,
don't shoot someone like most people do.
Instead, try to get some weeding done.
You'd be really surprised.

posted by Mademoiselle on December 8, 2006 at 10:19 AM | link to this | reply

Passion
this year has certainly flown by!  I intend to have a wonderful Christmas!

posted by bel_1965 on December 8, 2006 at 9:45 AM | link to this | reply

OMG! It can't have been a whole year, can it???

I know it's been a rough year to re-adjust to "normal" life but I'm so glad he's home and you guys are a family again. (ps-we ALL live from paycheck to paycheck)

God bless you guys and have a very Merry Christmas.

posted by Passionflower on December 8, 2006 at 9:41 AM | link to this | reply