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MandaLee
Thanks
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on November 15, 2006 at 3:37 PM
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sunny, yes, remember the good times.
posted by
Amanda__
on November 15, 2006 at 10:00 AM
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Rumored
This is so true. Thanks.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on November 15, 2006 at 6:17 AM
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Sunny, the pain never ever goes completely away..as already said...
try to remember the good times.

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posted by
Rumor
on November 14, 2006 at 7:20 AM
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Troosha
I've been living in the "now" for a while. It gets easier with practice and time. Once you realize that there is really no past or future, just "right now" it becomes easier.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on November 14, 2006 at 6:02 AM
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Sunny
Looking forward (as difficult as it may be at times) is the only way to overcome bad memories or hurts that linger. My shrink always says "stay in the moment" - meaning don't dwell on the past and don't fret about the future. It's hard to do.
posted by
Troosha
on November 13, 2006 at 3:35 PM
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Dave
It's the best way to get over things when you are able to do this. Thanks.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on November 13, 2006 at 10:18 AM
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I deal with it by moving on.
posted by
_dave_says_ack_
on November 13, 2006 at 10:15 AM
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Afzal
It can be difficult. Thanks.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on November 13, 2006 at 10:13 AM
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Tanga
It's a good idea. Thanks
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on November 13, 2006 at 10:12 AM
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ladychardonnay
Thanks
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on November 13, 2006 at 10:11 AM
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I find it very hard to deal with such kind of past pain.Good post.
posted by
afzal50
on November 13, 2006 at 8:54 AM
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The sadness always returns
try remember the good times
posted by
Tanga
on November 13, 2006 at 7:24 AM
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i cry - let it out - and it goes away until next time
posted by
ladychardonnay
on November 13, 2006 at 7:03 AM
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