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You will bounce around I believe kingmi...
...the stages of grief are set out in an order but I would highly doubt that anyone goes through them in the same order, or the same at all. I can understand what you write..I lost my sister when she was 46 and I felt as if I were caught in the middle of a whirlwind of emotions for a long time. Bouncing from one stage of grief to the other, back and forth, in no set order is more common I'd say. It's a journey. Your writings and tributes to your brother are truly beautiful kingmi.
posted by
ginnieb
on November 5, 2006 at 8:17 AM
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faholo, thank you, I just wasn't thinking I guess. What does that
Mean though? I have to bounce back and forth?
posted by
kingmi
on November 4, 2006 at 6:05 PM
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Kingmi, anger is one of the fives phases of grief,
it is very normal. In time acceptance comes. Good memories sustain us as the loss of a loved becomes less painful with time. There always remains an emptiness with which we learn to live. Blessings!
faholo
posted by
faholo
on November 4, 2006 at 11:49 AM
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