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Mrs Tanga
I totally agree to a point, but when they are here it doesnt bother me they do what they want, but its just when I want to make a decision to move they put a damper on me doing that. I really need to wait 2 more years to retire to get my benefits but sometimes its the dream overtakes my mind
posted by
Lanetay
on October 28, 2006 at 8:47 AM
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It is all fine and well when you want to provide for your kids but to do
it their whole lives will do them no good. They have to learn sometime in life to go their own paths and do their own things... live their own life. I will also always be there for my children does not matter what age they are but there will be limits. I feel quilty sometimes that I already wish it is time for them to leave the "nest" because sometimes they just drive me crazy. But I am sure when that day comes, I will be extremely devastated and it would be hard to let go! You have to start living your own life and do what you want to do. I wish I can do what I want to do sometimes. I feel like a prisoner sometimes. I cannot live my life like I would want to .. if you know what I am trying to say. IF your kids are old enough to look after themselves then it is time you realise your dream and do what you would like to do. 
Mrs Tanga
posted by
Tanga
on October 28, 2006 at 2:41 AM
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ladychardonnay
I cant dump them out but I make it too easy for them and I want to do something for me sometime
posted by
Lanetay
on October 27, 2006 at 1:27 PM
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i would always provide a home for my kids
at any age - i grew up in a household where several family member (aunts, cousins) came to stay with us when they were having financial difficulties in their lives. my mother on the other hand - lives in a studio downtown so no one can come back!!!
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ladychardonnay
on October 27, 2006 at 5:41 AM
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