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I've had that type of sex too...the friends with benefit kind...and I thought I was cool with it too...until I realized that I WAS getting attached, in a sort of subconscious way that lead to a very conscious reality! For me, it ALWAYS ended bad. I would get attached and then when he wanted to see someone else it would devastate me! I think it's interesting that you defined it as monogomous friends with benefits. How do you know that your friend IS only being with you? I guess if he's a really good friend I can see that...but I've had really great guy friends who I've been with but then the next night they're out with someone else without me knowing it. It's a trainwreck situation and I advise every woman to be careful of this destructive experience! For me now, I will not have sex unless I'm in a very commited relationship. I can't handle it any other way. But you may be different! I hope it works out for you!!!
posted by
naturechic
on October 21, 2006 at 8:07 PM
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beneficial friends are rare treasures.
posted by
fourcats
on October 21, 2006 at 10:07 AM
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i have an "ex" with benefits
he pays my bills - clean my kitchen every morning - and has a 9 x 6 penis - anything else?
posted by
ladychardonnay
on October 19, 2006 at 7:24 PM
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Personally, I prefer love.
But, of course, I am such a romantic... and quite pure, too.
posted by
bandanafish
on October 19, 2006 at 4:36 PM
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My experiences have been similar to yours.
I don't believe in love anymore...I'm tired of one night stands....Right now, I'm just not getting any...It's a tough question with no easy answers. If I could have good sex with someone on a regular basis, I would.
posted by
Passionflower
on October 19, 2006 at 4:30 PM
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