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lovelyladymonk, It takes a while to readjust after a shock like that. In the meantime, be good to yourself. Give him time to work it all out. Give yourself time to react in the way that is right for you.
posted by
TAPS.
on October 17, 2006 at 8:47 PM
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You know they say with freinds if there is a strong bound they never forget
it takes them a while to iron out things in there lives and sometime in order to do that they have to distance thereselves away from there closest one in there lives, which is not always the right thing to do, but in there mind it is. I;m sure all will be well again. ~Silly
posted by
SillySoul88
on October 17, 2006 at 4:13 PM
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nothing is wrong with you
I don't know your situation perfectly either but I am sure that the pain you are feeling is normal for the circumstances. I just wanted to give you hugs if you want one.
Blessings.
posted by
Nitewriter
on October 17, 2006 at 2:47 PM
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Dear Lovelylady:
Hello Lovelylady:
My thoughts and prayers go out to you. I am not sure about your previous relationship with Mick but we all have had relationships that tax us to the core. I have found that often when a situation seems impossible, then it is impossible. I recently ended a relationship with a guy who was not what I thought him to be, not what I wanted him to be and actually he could not be. It was easier for us to smile at each other and go away. Keep the best memories. 
So be thoughtful about yourself first, remember in the airplane the flight attendant says, "when the air pressure in the cabin is decreased and the face mask falls down, PUT IT ON YOURSELF FIRST then you can assist othes." You are special Lovelylady. Keep me posted..Blessings,
Lou
posted by
Cameraeye
on October 17, 2006 at 1:52 PM
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