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is it worth it?
If you're making out with a guy that you are emotionally attached to, but you realize that he is not as attached to you, then you have a choice.  Continue on, enjoying life in the moment and all the physical benefits so long as YOU are truly enjoying yourself, you "know the score" where his feelings are concerned (or the lack thereof), and; the experience doesn't leave you feeling sad, taken advantage of, or used somehow.  Or if any of those last three apply (and it sounds like it does from your use of the term empty), forget him, acknowledging and accepting that you may want more from him than he is willing to invest or return.  If you give of yourself emotionally, it's unfulfilling and self-defeating to be with someone who is not returning your affections or treating you with kindness and dignity.  A make-out buddy is fun, so long as both know they are in it for the same thing.  Otherwise, things can get sticky with differing agendas and ultimately are likely not to end well.  The question becomes in the bigger picture, is it worth it?  Or, might you be missing that guy who not only would be great to spend time with (or make out with) but who may also give back on the emotional side and/or may want more than just a night of necking in a dark corner or back seat??

posted by EllaMae on November 11, 2006 at 2:34 PM | link to this | reply