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You have a very beautiful mom and I can see the naughty look in her eyes

 I do not know anything of my family background but my husband does.  I do not even know if I am interested.. ... no, I am not!

Mrs Tanga

posted by Tanga on October 11, 2006 at 2:43 AM | link to this | reply

Thank you all so very much for your comments...so interesting!!!!

posted by _Symphony_ on October 11, 2006 at 1:59 AM | link to this | reply

Hey Symphony! sorry I haven't been around.....anyway..
I'm Italian on my mom's side and Polish on my Dad's.  I didn't know my Dad growing up, so I know more about the Italians.  I wish I would have kept a journal of some of the stories I have heard...many of them I have forgotten.

posted by shelly_b on October 10, 2006 at 8:59 PM | link to this | reply

I don't know much about my background either, but
my great great grand mother is still alive, she probably knows all about it. Too bad, though, she lives very very far away, plus, I kind of can't understand her talk.

posted by bandanafish on October 10, 2006 at 8:53 PM | link to this | reply

SYMPHONY, I'm Irish if you go back numerous generations and
German even further back....

posted by Rumor on October 10, 2006 at 2:18 PM | link to this | reply

I guess I was lucky that certain branches of my family started doing genealogy a century before it was trendy.  Scandinavians of mostly humble origins but a few royal connections which were largely ridiculed.  Some secrets and skeletons in the closet, too.  I think if we trace back far enough, we are all related. 

posted by babe_rocks on October 10, 2006 at 11:46 AM | link to this | reply

Your background does not make you who you are
I have not done it myself but I do know people who have had success in tracing their ancestry on the internet. They found it totally absorbing, and time consuming!

posted by AbsolutelyPositive on October 10, 2006 at 11:03 AM | link to this | reply

she looked to have a bit of mischief in her eyes as a child

posted by SuccessWarrior on October 10, 2006 at 7:21 AM | link to this | reply

awesome

posted by star4sky5 on October 10, 2006 at 7:16 AM | link to this | reply

SYMPHONY, Your Mum is beautiful!

posted by Amanda__ on October 10, 2006 at 7:02 AM | link to this | reply

posted by lovelyladymonk on October 10, 2006 at 6:55 AM | link to this | reply

Searching out your family history
can be addictive and time consuming -- it's detective work with the devil in the details, and clues that confuse. It's discovering you're not the oddest twig on the family tree.  Ancestry.com is one online resource, but there are many others.  Many LDS churches have huge files, including census records, etc., that are open to non-members. If you really want to do this, contact your cousins - host a big family potluck and put out a few old photos to get them talking, have the tape recorder going.  It will amaze and delight you. 

posted by Pat_B on October 10, 2006 at 6:47 AM | link to this | reply

SYMPHONY
Your Nana looks like she was a lot of fun. Orney look on her face in her youth and maturity. That's always a good thing. Do you take after her cause I know you have that in your bones too...

posted by Offy on October 10, 2006 at 6:26 AM | link to this | reply

Those are mischevious eyes Symph!
There must be somewhere you can find out about your heritage...must be frustrating and having a sister you don't know?  Do you know anything about her?  My father's family was from Perth, Scotland and I got to finally visit there last year.  It felt very cool walking the same streets they did. My mother's family is Irish in origin so I'm a  Brit from way back!  My surname (I kept my maiden name) is  Irish although I consider myself more of a Scot.

posted by ginnieb on October 10, 2006 at 6:16 AM | link to this | reply

I've got a million relatives, all within about an hour's drive from here.
My mother's family and father's family have about five or six different branches, and I know at least one common ancestor came here in the late 1600s/early 1700s. He was a Hugenot minister and founded a number of churches in the lowcountry.

As my cousin, who traced all this stuff, once said, "The world was a mighty small place on horseback."

Places to look for info, Symph, are things like county courthouses and archives, as well as old family letters and documents. An especially good source can be old family bibles -- because back in the day generally everyone listed their children's birthdates in them, among other things. Also, older relatives are good sources, and it's important to talk to them before they pass on.

Good luck on your search, should you decide to get into it!

posted by strat on October 10, 2006 at 6:07 AM | link to this | reply

SYMPHONY
That's a good idea we must all share one day. This post has sent me to to a digging up job.

posted by Bhaskar.ing on October 10, 2006 at 5:34 AM | link to this | reply

cute pictures

my father was german - his father was born in germany.  he was a bit of a nazi and believed that hitler was right.  my mother's family was a mixture of eastern european and welsh, and they were jewish.  my grandfather apparently did not come to the wedding because my mother was marrying a german carpenter - which he felt was below her.  family get-togethers were always pretty humorous.  the german side were all tall and serious / then the jewish side were a bit shorter and always laughing.  but my dad and the uncles always got into "the debate" about the holocaust and that was when us kids were shuffled out of the room.

that's my history - don't anyone get offended because that's just the way it was.

I am an American.  Plain and Simple.

posted by ladychardonnay on October 10, 2006 at 5:05 AM | link to this | reply

Beautiful pics! Good luck on your search.

posted by A-and-B on October 10, 2006 at 4:01 AM | link to this | reply

SYMPHONY...
I don't know a lot about my background either.

posted by jacentaOld on October 10, 2006 at 3:41 AM | link to this | reply

My Grandmother has
quite and extensive family tree from my Dad's side. It is interesting reading and may just post it one day. Thanks for the idea! Great photos. You can definitely see the little girl in your Mom.

posted by Tanga on October 10, 2006 at 3:17 AM | link to this | reply