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be happy he is coming around you could be like me with no one to get oversexed about
posted by
Lanetay
on October 7, 2006 at 12:23 PM
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ceemarie53
let my oversexed mind go to work too, he is coming alive maybe because mike is dying out
posted by
Lanetay
on October 7, 2006 at 12:19 PM
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Lilane-
Yeah, and it was HIS idea! Gives my overly sexed brain something to think about! Something per week until the 31st - yeah,,,,,,,,,
Thanks!! Best idea to come down the pike in a long time!
Sister Cee 
posted by
LadyCeeMarie
on October 7, 2006 at 11:49 AM
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YP......
Thank you for the flowers, my friend. I progress because of he love and acceptance I feel surrounding me, a large portion from right here. Thank you for the encouraging words. I take them to heart, I do!
LadyCee
posted by
LadyCeeMarie
on October 7, 2006 at 11:21 AM
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ceemarie53
that is wonderful, put some fantasy in thta halloween sceme. Maybe something new weekly until Halloween gets here. You can be his treat and trick.
posted by
Lanetay
on October 7, 2006 at 11:06 AM
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Lilane-
I asked him right out if he had a girlfriend, to which he snorted and said, "I'm too old, too ugly, too fat." Well, when we get around his side of the family, they are all so slender, men and women, that we feel that way. I went back to Weight Watchers (I'm a lifetime member). I always lose weight when I am accountable to someone with a scale, it seems! I'm one of the few who can lose on their core plan. I love it because it fits our style of cooking. I don't need to make many changes except to drink more water and exercise more. Watching sodium is a good thing to do as well. By Christmas, I hope to gift wrap me. He said I could be a nun as long as I wore something sexy underneath. I plan on a black garter belt and black hose. I said we could decorate the house like a haunted Abby and he could be Henry the Handyman (His first name is Henry Jay.) I'm Sister Cee. Hmm. We can have our own party like last year I hope. And believe me, my crying days about Mike are over, soooooo over. From now on, I have only the hurtful days to remember and anger replaces the tears. I'm going to work with my husband on his big new contract; I told him to train me on how to jobs that don't require me to speak to the public. My Parkinson's makes my voice range a 1 on a scale of 1-10. I think having me help him again will go a long way in restoring our sex life.
Cee
posted by
LadyCeeMarie
on October 7, 2006 at 10:56 AM
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When u make progress- we, your friends, also make progress. Gr8 role model
We love youCeemarie, Lady C. Do the best thing by each other now...thanks for sharing. here's.
posted by
ILLUMINATI8
on October 7, 2006 at 10:50 AM
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ceemarie53
I believe a lot of men are like that, they feel they are only half a man if they arent successful. Does he have low self esteem? I am sure, although he was like that before the affair with Mike, that didnt help his man hood. Does he seek out help from a doctor for his mis conceptions what a real man is? You are so busy crying over Mike you need to be crying over Jay. Honey I lost my men many times to other woman and I have been the other woman, so I have seen both side of the fence and its not pretty on either side
posted by
Lanetay
on October 7, 2006 at 8:35 AM
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lilane-
Well, I've asked him about that. We do a lot of hugging and kissing but he has been ED for months. He even got little blue Viagra pills but only tried them a couple of times. When his business does well, he can perform. But all the pressures of the business have taken their toll on our sex life.
He has always been the one to see the glass half empty and I see it as half full. He thinks he is less because he's not as successful as he thinks he should be. He's jealous of anyone, even relatives, who are our age and financially "set." I just shake my head, and remind him that only the friend who was a professional gambler is retired and rolling in the dough. The thing with Mike never affected Jay much that way. Now Mike, on the other hand, had real problems with my sleeping with my husband. These problems with intimacy were going on long before I fell for Mike. It's an old problem, getting worse as he gets older. That's why I'm going to be a nun. I've chosen life in the Abbey. So be it. Amen!
Cee
posted by
LadyCeeMarie
on October 6, 2006 at 11:38 PM
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well there must be a reason your husband ask about Mike, make Jay feel loved and he will return the love, but Mike is not the place you should be
posted by
Lanetay
on October 6, 2006 at 9:41 PM
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lilane-
Thanks for your advice and concern. I am finally feeling nothing compared to tears. It's as if died. I'm not getting much more attention at home either. Think I'll be a nun for Halloween!
Cee
posted by
LadyCeeMarie
on October 6, 2006 at 9:31 PM
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recovery
This may sound harsh but you need to wash this man out of your hair and praise God you are well and have a loving husband, and not a man that would cheat on his wife and make you feel so loved and in despeartion to be with him. Let it go Carol, I am great at advise, but there is a time in life that you get to the point your motions are spent and there is nothing left to feel anything. Love hate, tears or sorrow there is nothing left to feel, dotn let this happen to you
posted by
Lanetay
on October 6, 2006 at 8:24 PM
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