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posted by
_Symphony_
on September 29, 2006 at 5:32 AM
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This whole subject is so very sad..
for everyone that has lost a loved one. One never gets over the death of someone close. It is always in the back of your mind and the feelings you had for the person is locked up in your heart and the feelings you have experienced through losing them will always be inside you and you will never be able to let it go. It is just a matter of being able to cope and go on with your life and not letting it rule and effect your life in a negative way and make it miserable. You will be missing out on a lot of things, so I have realised. I want to pay respect and sympathy through my comment for all those people who have lost loved ones, if it was long ago or just recently,... be strong and keep the memories tightly locked away in your heart! Never let it go but live your life like you know that person would have wanted you to!
Mrs Tanga
posted by
Tanga
on September 28, 2006 at 7:29 AM
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A very good post
I have yet to lose somebody very close, but Mrs Tanga can relate. She will be reading the post later. Thanks
posted by
Tanga
on September 27, 2006 at 6:46 AM
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Thank you all so much for your comments......
posted by
_Symphony_
on September 27, 2006 at 3:17 AM
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Iguess its sorta the same thing when a relationship ends. You expect to be happily ever after and the story ends up as make-believe.
posted by
ThomasFranklin
on September 26, 2006 at 9:39 PM
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You are right that you never really get over a loss but
sort of get past it. It's always with you.
posted by
Whacky
on September 26, 2006 at 7:17 PM
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I experienced bereavement too. Initially I wondered if there was anything I could have done differently while the person was alive. I think life is fated.
(A)
posted by
A-and-B
on September 26, 2006 at 2:54 PM
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I have experienced all the emotions you mention. Time heals but a person is changed forever. t
posted by
babe_rocks
on September 26, 2006 at 2:41 PM
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SYMPHONY, Part of what helped me deal with the loss of my son when he died was the fact that there were so many others that needed my care: my widowed daughter-in-law that was distraught with grief, my three-month-old grandson who had lost his father and was crying all of the time because he sensed his mother's grief, my husband, my other three sons who could not believe they had really lost their little brother..... Doing for others does not take away the grief, but for a time it dulls the pain.
posted by
TAPS.
on September 26, 2006 at 1:41 PM
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SYMPHONY
Huh? I Spain is an hour later than England, and it's now 10.30 here in Andalucia, why does your clock say 4 whatever it is right now? ( 'cos it's taken me a bit of time to write this, see, so I don't know exactly what time it says now, and I can't be bothered to go and check. Phew! )
I've heard of putting a clock back instead of forward, and vice versa hell, let's be honest here, I've done it myself ; but this is ridiculous.
It made me go all funny seeing that ; wondered if I was having hallucinations or sumfink. I think I need another brandy! Hic!
el Tel
posted by
ariel70
on September 26, 2006 at 1:34 PM
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