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YPunday
It's horrible isn't it? I hate to appear like I live in a shell....but the less I know of the goverments doings, the better I feel. So I don't follow too closely with what they do. They are all self seeking anyway.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 16, 2006 at 7:47 AM
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Aparthied South Africa was not gr8 for selfesteem. Yet a majority buils it
when they are in something together...it takes self-esteem of the love-liest kind to come up with elements of NONIOLEMNCE in one's struggle against colonialism and segregation (a la Gandhi, King and Nelson Mandela). If I speak honestly, the crackdown on free speech in the USA has hurt my self-esteem more than had the apartheid regime. It hurts me to say this so much....but many Americans never understand the pschic need we have to speak our differences & minds. Most just follow government like sheep....and then we call others Nazis and fascists. I cry about this....so much for self-esteem. Shalom 7 healing to ALL
posted by
ILLUMINATI8
on September 16, 2006 at 7:22 AM
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Sunny
It happens, everytime. So we must be careful.
posted by
Bhaskar.ing
on September 15, 2006 at 10:00 PM
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Bhaskar
The blogit police....are they lurking again?
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 15, 2006 at 9:46 PM
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Sunny
If I explain, the Blogit police will arrest us....hahaaa
posted by
Bhaskar.ing
on September 15, 2006 at 9:20 PM
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Bhaskar
I don't get it. LOL
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 15, 2006 at 9:15 PM
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Sunny
Steamy esteem, I mean. Cum on now....I am not mean. Get it ?
posted by
Bhaskar.ing
on September 15, 2006 at 8:57 PM
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Bhaskar
Steamy
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 15, 2006 at 8:47 PM
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Ariala
Good way of looking at it. I can agree, my self esteem is much higher when I'm more spiritually inclined than when not.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 15, 2006 at 8:47 PM
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How do we measure it? Symptoms of good self-esteem can be a person
who is at peace with self and with others. When my esteem is in God, and not in self, I fit that category.
posted by
Ariala
on September 15, 2006 at 8:41 PM
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Sunny
Thank you soo sooooooooo much for accepting and compementing. Now, do you feel the blood of your self-esteem steaming ?
posted by
Bhaskar.ing
on September 15, 2006 at 8:37 PM
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Bhaskar
What is hard to believe? You are always between.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 15, 2006 at 8:28 PM
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Therapy Sunny ?
Therapy for self-esteem ? Cum on, I don't believe it. Mine (self-esteem) will be always in between. So why worry ?
posted by
Bhaskar.ing
on September 15, 2006 at 8:13 PM
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Shelly
It can, yes.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 15, 2006 at 8:00 PM
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SillySoul88
Thanks. I hope things start moving more up than down.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 15, 2006 at 8:00 PM
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It varies
posted by
shelly_b
on September 15, 2006 at 7:59 PM
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oh well (sigh)
I beelive mine centers on various of days, there has been many times where I I which I wasn't born, but I have to say out of 50% it's about 44% today was at 35%. ~Silly
posted by
SillySoul88
on September 15, 2006 at 6:42 PM
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Ann
Well...that's better than nothing.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 15, 2006 at 6:20 PM
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Just enough to get by.
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posted by
A-and-B
on September 15, 2006 at 6:09 PM
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Schatz
It's good that you could pull through whatever set you back as a child.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 15, 2006 at 4:42 PM
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afzal
You're not in a mess, you've just made some bad choices. Everyone does. You will work through it, because you have the ambition and esteem to achieve what you desire.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 15, 2006 at 4:41 PM
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Rumored
That's aweful....It sounds like you got a bad deal!
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 15, 2006 at 4:39 PM
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my email address is schatzthegreat....you do the math LOL
My mom says I have a lucky star. I think I was just born for greatness. But I haven't always been this way. I was a wreck as a kid.
posted by
Schatz
on September 15, 2006 at 4:00 PM
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Yes I always felt I am somebody great born to do big things but I landed up
in a mess but still I don't feel inferior for any reason.Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on September 15, 2006 at 11:02 AM
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Sunny, I really think they all did, yes....
posted by
Rumor
on September 15, 2006 at 10:42 AM
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Rumored
Did your siblings have higher esteem? Neglect was about 1/2 of what ruined mine.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 15, 2006 at 10:40 AM
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SincerityAnna
Thanks so much! How sweet of you to say!
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 15, 2006 at 10:38 AM
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afzal
That is good. It means that you were raised feeling like you were worth something.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 15, 2006 at 10:37 AM
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I have a very high self esteem . I have always thought of myself to be
great and have absolute confidence on myself.
posted by
afzal50
on September 15, 2006 at 9:18 AM
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Sunny,
All my life I was made to feel worthless...it's wasn't therapy that healed me it was true love. You are a wonderful, kind, caring person. You have many great qualities. You should feel proud of your self.
posted by
SincerityAnna
on September 15, 2006 at 8:24 AM
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Sunny, I was made to feel the same way as a kid..I had no self esteem or
self confidence..maybe it was being the 4th kid, and born 12 yrs after my younger sister..its been tough to overcome.
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posted by
Rumor
on September 15, 2006 at 8:04 AM
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Tanga
She is doing very well at telling her story. I can only imagine the struggles she's had with this.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 15, 2006 at 7:04 AM
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High
My parents really boosted their kids self esteem. Mrs Tanga - well she will tell her own story
posted by
Tanga
on September 15, 2006 at 7:01 AM
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Artifact
It does make sense. There are areas that my esteem is higher and others that it is lower.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 15, 2006 at 6:57 AM
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My self-esteem is multifaceted
In some senses it is very low but in others it is very high. If that makes sense
posted by
Artifact
on September 15, 2006 at 6:40 AM
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