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Troosha
It is possible. Some people pick up on these things easily.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 11, 2006 at 10:06 AM
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I’m not sure what it is about me but I can smell, sense, and feel attraction or love within seconds. Maybe, however, I’m putting out strong signals at the same time. Dunno
posted by
Troosha
on September 11, 2006 at 9:48 AM
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gome
That's too funny! Lucky for you to have met such a woman, aye?
I was the same way. I never understood flirting until a few years ago. Live and learn, I guess.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 11, 2006 at 8:59 AM
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Sunnybeach7 - I can honestly say that a more stunned and oblivious person
than myself probably does not exist in this regard.
When I was single, I never caught on to the little nuances of flirtation, most times with very strong overtures sailing completely over my head. If it were not for the aggressive stance taken by my wife out of complete frustration, it is very likely that I would be single today.
posted by
gomedome
on September 11, 2006 at 8:57 AM
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SpitFire
I agree. If people can't express thier feelings to someone, then what is there to be desired?
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 11, 2006 at 6:35 AM
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avant-garde
You may have a good point there
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 11, 2006 at 6:34 AM
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Tanga
Hahaha.....Lucky for you..huh?
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 11, 2006 at 6:33 AM
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SB,
I don't know cause I've had mixed experiences with this kinda thing. I've heard from many men that they always have only one thing on their mind, but I don't believe that with everyone. I think gut instinct should play a big part in it. Sometimes, it can't always be perceived, so in that case, I would just take it as it seems at the time. No one can be forced to "be" with someone they don't want to be with. I think that if a man can't just come out and state their personal romantic feelings, then they are obviously hesitant for a reason. Something to take into consideration.
posted by
SpitFire70
on September 11, 2006 at 3:46 AM
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sunnybeach
I think it might be a little different for men. I cannot say for sure. I don't take casual flirting too seriously. I like to think that everyone has a right to be left alone and they are free to express themselves. Too many women are afraid to be even remotely expressive, lest their innocent comments and actions be taken as an invitation to go to the next level.
posted by
avant-garde
on September 11, 2006 at 3:02 AM
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I need a more direct
approach. Due to this my wife is very secure in our marraige. Sometimes she will say "Did you see how that woman was flirting with you?" and my answer "Really? I did not even notice!"
posted by
Tanga
on September 10, 2006 at 11:12 PM
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Mari-am
Thanks!
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 10, 2006 at 8:10 PM
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markng
Actually yes, I always thought he was too good looking to have any interest in me. LOL
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 10, 2006 at 8:09 PM
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Ann and Ben
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 10, 2006 at 8:08 PM
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posted by
Rosetree
on September 10, 2006 at 8:05 PM
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maybe because you never thought you two are a possibility?
posted by
markng
on September 10, 2006 at 8:05 PM
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posted by
A-and-B
on September 10, 2006 at 6:47 PM
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afzal
Yes, I know. We have talked about this. Thanks.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 10, 2006 at 6:29 PM
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I am very perceptive , I catch on to it very easily . You know that.
posted by
afzal50
on September 10, 2006 at 6:28 PM
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babe_rocks
That happens, I know.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 10, 2006 at 6:21 PM
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I am fearful of reading too much into an innocent gesture.
posted by
babe_rocks
on September 10, 2006 at 6:19 PM
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