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Talion
strange with all these observations. guess there no right answer

posted by Lanetay on September 1, 2006 at 7:01 PM | link to this | reply

Justi
good observation but not always true with some

posted by Lanetay on September 1, 2006 at 7:00 PM | link to this | reply

Julia
true but they dont seem to care after marriage like the did single

posted by Lanetay on September 1, 2006 at 6:59 PM | link to this | reply

terpgirl30
I usually spot a married by the way she dresses and walks, they just dont care as much

posted by Lanetay on September 1, 2006 at 6:57 PM | link to this | reply

You couldn't guess me

I didn't want to get married growing up.  Didn't believe in it.  So, of course, I got married at 18 and stayed married for over two decades.  He had a bit of a breakdown and took off.  I did a nosedive.  The person who didn't believe in turned out to believe in it.  Then I married the rebound guy after dating lots of perfectly normal people.  For all the great guys I've dated, I have to decide to keep that broken one from the Island of Misfit toys.  If I weren't get deposed this month, I'd tell you how demented and broken.  It'll be in the book---really.

The point is, when I was married for the 2 decades, I NEVER fit in with EITHER group.  I went to a pretty strict Baptist church...but I had kept my maiden name.  Neither group wanted me.  I ran a few businesses so the church women thought I was a turncoat against them...I worked at home so I could be with the kids, so that didn't fit in with the executive women in the other corner. 

It's funny how you say you can spot each group though.  I have always said I can spot born agains having been in the family with preachers and the like for so long.  I worked with a woman, and about 6 months in, I told her she had me baffled.  I couldn't figure out if she were a born again Christian or a Mary Kay saleswoman...Guess what, she was both. 

What are five signs for each group.  (This would be  a funny article, btw, if you ever get the urge to write it down...sort of like Dave Letterman's lists...just a thought.)

Kim

posted by terpgirl30 on September 1, 2006 at 5:21 PM | link to this | reply

I think married women are more comfortable
being less made-up, but that is not always a sad thing. The artificiality of presenting a made-up being to the world can also lead to the hiding of what is inside.

posted by Julia. on September 1, 2006 at 3:15 PM | link to this | reply

lustorlove
I have to go with tallion it is an attitude. If the person is available you can tell it-male or female. A person in a good relationship is not available. Simple!

posted by Justi on September 1, 2006 at 1:38 PM | link to this | reply

lustorlove
It's easy to spot someone on the prowl. That's the primary difference between someone who's attached and who's not.

posted by Talion on September 1, 2006 at 1:35 PM | link to this | reply

lilane

Now I am going to tell ya something about that....

It's so true! I would bitch slap my partner if he did that to me, but even if I am just walking though the  supermarket men turn their heads. If I am in a good mood I will smile, if I know they are married, I flip them the finger. If their pigs , I ignore. Big ole gooners...they make me sick especially when I am driving. Shit they can cause accidents ya know?

posted by Offy on September 1, 2006 at 1:35 PM | link to this | reply

married vs single
yes i agree often when i go out with friends we can spot them a mile off...most wed women who don't get out much  go wild...I bet you can spot the married men a mile off too lol  

posted by t_u_f_ on September 1, 2006 at 1:32 PM | link to this | reply

OFFBEATS
and the men would look at us instead of their wives sweetie

posted by Lanetay on September 1, 2006 at 1:22 PM | link to this | reply

lilane
I would spot them in a NY second...the single women would be the ones wearing a smile and cracking jokes...You know how we are sweetie!!!!

posted by Offy on September 1, 2006 at 1:20 PM | link to this | reply