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Stonecold
Thank you so much! I wouldn't mind having Barbie's perfect body though. Wait it's not perfect it's missing needed parts!
posted by
bel_1965
on July 28, 2006 at 10:01 AM
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I have to agree with
that last comment...well balanced is what you sound like. And I don't believe in any relationship that is not a partnership. OF equals. Meek, vapid, or empty women are just....boring. Hanging out with Barbie is about as much fun as watching televised golf.
posted by
stonecold434
on July 28, 2006 at 9:48 AM
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What that makes you is well balanced. :)
posted by
Pat_B
on July 28, 2006 at 7:02 AM
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Corbin
and I am not afraid to use it when needed!
posted by
bel_1965
on July 28, 2006 at 5:35 AM
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Passion
So far I haven't found a sugar daddy willing to pay my bills without me working for it, so I guess that means I have to worry about my opinion first LOL!
posted by
bel_1965
on July 28, 2006 at 5:27 AM
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Hmmmmm?
5' 1"? I understand how men would fear you...you'd have a "low" point of contact in a fight!
posted by
Corbin_Dallas
on July 28, 2006 at 5:26 AM
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Blackcat
I can't deal with yes men (or women). I expect enough intelligence from those I deal with that they have an opinion other than MINE!
posted by
bel_1965
on July 28, 2006 at 5:25 AM
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Offbeats
Thank you! I think you are right!
posted by
bel_1965
on July 28, 2006 at 5:24 AM
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Talion
While I try to treat most people respectfully and those that I find it impossible I try to avoid but the number of people that I respect is limited. You are one of the few that I truly respect. Your attitude here is exactly why.
posted by
bel_1965
on July 28, 2006 at 5:24 AM
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Spudnuts
I think that is going to be my new sig line! I LIKE that!
posted by
bel_1965
on July 28, 2006 at 5:22 AM
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Corbin
I do try! I also try to keep in mind what is important enough to fight about and what in the end is just a waste of my time.
Besides, I'm 5'1" if I am too nice, I get that "oh your are so cute" attitude from people UGH!
posted by
bel_1965
on July 28, 2006 at 5:21 AM
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Avonna
Maybe when I am ready I will write that story. For now I have a project that I am very excited about and I am focusing on that.
Your story has helped many I am very sure of that. I know here where I live they have a thing that civilians that have been victims of domestic abuse in the past work with the local police. They are called in to talk with victims immeditately after the police report is taken. When my project is complete I am considering doing something of that sort.
You make a wonderful advocate!
posted by
bel_1965
on July 28, 2006 at 5:17 AM
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Tanga
Thank you so much!!!
posted by
bel_1965
on July 28, 2006 at 5:13 AM
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bel...
I think that you are able to balance the two because you have the quality of wisdom,
You know when to be the "bitch"....and you use it accordingly........
posted by
Corbin_Dallas
on July 28, 2006 at 5:11 AM
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Justi
My opinion is not always appreciated or right, but I try to live by what I believe to be right.
posted by
bel_1965
on July 28, 2006 at 5:11 AM
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LOL Dave!
It seems pretty appropriate at times!
posted by
bel_1965
on July 28, 2006 at 5:10 AM
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Blonde
You are tough as they come and for many years you have HAD to be to survive. I have also learned you also have a heart of gold. Putting those two things about you together built a home for a little girl and her family in Kosovo. Sounds like a darn good combination to me!
posted by
bel_1965
on July 28, 2006 at 5:09 AM
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Avant
Sometimes we have to fight for what is important. When it comes to those I love, I don't back down. Something tells me your wife is probably very much the same.
posted by
bel_1965
on July 28, 2006 at 5:06 AM
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bel
I like a woman who is not afraid of status quo. My wife can be quite a scrapper, too. And, Pepper, my only girl dog, is quite sassy. I like a little fire in my girls.
posted by
avant-garde
on July 28, 2006 at 4:22 AM
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Bel
You know my policy by now....who cares what people think, end the end you were honest and you have your integrity. However people want to categorize you in their world is there issue.
I think a lot of the reason why people get their feelings hurt when you tell them the truth, is because they are insecure and have a low self esteem.
I know I have been told things by people that I respect and it has hurt at times, but I really try to take their advice or opinions and make a change for the better.
Normally, people know in their heart what is right and wrong and where they need to be in life....they just have to make a decision to change and be strong. I know, I'm speaking for myself here!
posted by
BlondeAmbition007
on July 28, 2006 at 4:08 AM
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I love Carl's 'wild hair' line. I shall remember that for future use.
posted by
_dave_says_ack_
on July 28, 2006 at 1:20 AM
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bel
It makes you a woman of integrity, guts and strength. I'll take those characteristics in a man or woman any day. They look at the issues not the ego first. Don't you change.
posted by
Justi
on July 27, 2006 at 11:32 PM
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This makes you
a wonderful person as you know what you want and will usually achieve your goals. I do not see anything wrong with that. My wife is the same.
posted by
Tanga
on July 27, 2006 at 11:20 PM
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I respect you.
Bel, thank you for all your encouraging comments. I 'get' you have suffered and I appreciate everything your have to say. I'm moving on to write my book, I will let you know how that goes. Maybe you will, when you're ready, share your experience. I hope so - it's very healing. Wish you the best.
posted by
Avonna
on July 27, 2006 at 9:06 PM
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BTW,
"Well-behaved women rarely make history."
posted by
Spudnuts
on July 27, 2006 at 8:25 PM
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Oh my god! You are such a bitch, bel!!!! Why you gotta be so mean????
If you back down people will only learn that you are easy to take advantage of and they'll exploit you. It's a simple fact of life and of people. There's not a damn thing wrong with having an opinion and standing up for yourself as long as you don't steamroll someone just because they disagree with you. Strong women rock!
posted by
Spudnuts
on July 27, 2006 at 8:23 PM
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bel_1965
Strong woman or bitch depends on the situation, the subject at hand, and who you're dealing with. Too often, the problem with "strong" individuals (male or female) is they use their strength as an excuse to be rude, intimidating, etc. My conduct here mirrors my conduct in the real world. I know when to speak up and when to keep my mouth shut, I don't argue needlessly, and I can articulate an opposing view without ridicule. Because I have nothing to prove, I can avoid most confrontations before they begin. I take the time to learn how a person wants to be treated and if possible, treat them that way. Ultimately, it make my life a whole lot easier.
posted by
Talion
on July 27, 2006 at 8:10 PM
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bel
Most women I know don't take any crap and are very strong, I think that's why men are attracted to them. Honesty is the best policy!!
posted by
Offy
on July 27, 2006 at 8:10 PM
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that makes you... you. : )
I don't take crap either... and I couldn't be with a "yes man." I was with one once... until I finally had to tell him to stop agreeing with everything I said! It was so annoying. I sent him away.... LOL
posted by
-blackcat
on July 27, 2006 at 7:46 PM
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That makes you....
Well, it depends on your point of view. You can't please all the people all the time. Just be yourself and don't worry about what others think of you...when they start paying your rent, they can give you some shit about a few things.
posted by
Passionflower
on July 27, 2006 at 7:36 PM
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