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BC
It's actually my mom's house, and he cuts the grass here and stuff.  And the door is usually open.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on July 19, 2006 at 8:21 PM | link to this | reply

he shouldn't have even walked into the house if you didn't open the
door for him. 

posted by -blackcat on July 19, 2006 at 8:09 PM | link to this | reply

Ann...Yes

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on July 19, 2006 at 7:42 PM | link to this | reply

He should have respected your privacy. Lol.

(A)

posted by A-and-B on July 19, 2006 at 7:37 PM | link to this | reply

Cringe
Oh, I'm sure! lol

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on July 19, 2006 at 2:13 PM | link to this | reply

Nah, not a good idea.
I'm supposed to meet an ex for lunch soon, and I wouldn't like the idea of him walking into my house and seeing me anything other than fully clothed.

(Mind you I'm sure my husband would have feelings on that too!)

posted by Cringe on July 19, 2006 at 2:11 PM | link to this | reply

Bel
Yep. This is the first time he has ever done this.  I don't know what he was thinking.  

 

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on July 19, 2006 at 11:29 AM | link to this | reply

From the comment you made to him about being naked
He should have gotten the point that he was crossing YOUR boundaries.  I would tell him that in the future he is not to walk in YOUR bathroom when you are in it.

posted by bel_1965 on July 19, 2006 at 10:35 AM | link to this | reply

Schatz
LOL!  

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on July 19, 2006 at 10:09 AM | link to this | reply

Uh, the right? No one has the right to see you period, if you say no.
Man, if I ruled the world, ahhhhhhh the things I would change. Muah ha ha hah haaaaaah!

posted by Schatz on July 19, 2006 at 10:07 AM | link to this | reply

Passion
I didn't say addiction, I said obsession..... It becomes a lot more involved than just sex.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on July 19, 2006 at 9:25 AM | link to this | reply

Sunny, speakin as someone with a sexual addiction-

It's really not about the sex-the sex works as a narcotic to make us feel better temporarily. But we're trying to fill a VOID in our lives with sex...the way a penis fills a vagina.

The guy has a big HOLE in his life.

posted by Passionflower on July 19, 2006 at 9:19 AM | link to this | reply

Nanaroo
So a definite boundary breaker.....Thanks for your thoughts  

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on July 19, 2006 at 7:13 AM | link to this | reply

Passion
He's the one with the lifelong sexual obsession....so I found his reaction VERY mild.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on July 19, 2006 at 7:12 AM | link to this | reply

sunny
I think it's a matter of boundaries and he definitely pushed yours- I would answer a NO to this question!

posted by Nanaroo on July 19, 2006 at 7:09 AM | link to this | reply

I would have told him to get out!

posted by Passionflower on July 19, 2006 at 7:05 AM | link to this | reply

afzal
  

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on July 19, 2006 at 7:03 AM | link to this | reply

Ariala
Shame on you! LOL!

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on July 19, 2006 at 7:02 AM | link to this | reply

Good question . I should say that it is not him who has a right but it is
you who will decide.

posted by afzal50 on July 19, 2006 at 6:31 AM | link to this | reply

Depends on if you're
 (horny) or not, LOL  (Just kidding)

posted by Ariala on July 19, 2006 at 6:29 AM | link to this | reply