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Can it hurt to try? Will you be able to quit at some point?
Kids are always better behaved when with an adult other than their own parents. You're the boss, and quite possibly he will listen to you. Only you know how bad he really is. If you think it's impossible that you can keep him in line, then I'd say to search elsewhere to earn the extra cash. You may never know unless you try...
posted by
-blackcat
on July 15, 2006 at 8:23 AM
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Lullabye and goodnight, go to sleep little Schatzy!
I would recommend avoiding it if you feel that way. It's much easier to say no beforehand than to try and get out of it once you've already started. I'm the kind of person who adores her own children, but am not so fond of other people's. Not that I can't become attached, but it ain't easy!
He sounds like a REAL handful and I'm guessing he would add a great deal of stress to your houshold and that's almost never worth a few extra bucks!
Honestly, I truly understand needing the money, but perhaps there are other ways? Maybe you could cut back on a few expenses? Almost everyone has things they're spending money on that they don't really need to.
Is this a temporary situation or do you think you'll have money problems for the long haul? Because if it's just temporary, then it might be best to try to ride it out. However, if it's going to be long term and you just can't see another way, then on the positive side, it probably won't take long to get him used to being in your household; just set rules and stick to them. Whenever I watch other people's kids they ALWAYS behave better for me. I believe it's because they respect me and I respect them.
Also, if you're worried about your friend taking advantage of you, set down some very specific rules for her and stick to them just like you would for her child. People will take advantage of you only if you allow them to. She may falter a few times, but if you make it clear that you will only watch her child if she follows your guidelines then she'll probably do it. Just don't be too strict if something legitimate comes up!
I'm sure you'll get it figured out! You have a great head on your shoulders! Sleep sweet! 
posted by
Spudnuts
on July 15, 2006 at 8:22 AM
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I wouldn't do it
By the time this child is done you will be irritable with your own over his behavior. I have a step-son who does this to us every year. Our family runs fine with a few bumps along the way. The boy is 13 and it's like having a 2 year old around. I spend the entire month he is here, tired and short with my family. Crl and I have come to the decision if things have not improved this will be the last time he gets to visit for more than a weekend because he is so much of a problem. DON'T put your family through this!
posted by
bel_1965
on July 15, 2006 at 7:18 AM
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Just say "No!"
Best case scenario -- the kid will wear you out and take your nurturing attention away from your own. Most likely case scenario -- you'll resent the demanding little rascal, he'll try your last nerve, you'll end up telling your friend to find another sitter and she'll turn against you.
Worst case scenario, you'll be so stressed out from dealing with the kid all day you can't sleep at night, you'll be crabby, depressed, reaching for pain pills or something to take the edge off, you'll circle down into alcoholism, lose custody of your kids, and end up on the street, panhandling. Oh. No. That's a TV Movie of the Week... But you won't be a happy camper.
posted by
Pat_B
on July 15, 2006 at 7:11 AM
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.....it sounds like disaster brewing.....shoot this messenger if it will help....insomnia....yes, a dear friend of mine....i'm reminded of the dyslexic, agnostic, insomniac - stayed awake all night wondering if there is a dog......blessings Moon_Spirit 
posted by
syzygy
on July 15, 2006 at 3:52 AM
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