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- Go to THE LAST AND FINAL CHAPTER......OUCH...THIS ONE REALLY HURT!
You don't have to stop loving him, you just have to stop letting him
hurt you; you can't change people, or get them to meet your dreams, your hopes or expectations; we have to accept that people are who they are, and realize that we must be our own best friend, in the long run... To need that externally is never going to bring anyone lasting happiness.
I learned these things from the alcoholic I loved and lived with, but now rarely see. I still love him, but I expect nothing from him but that he will go on being who he chooses to be.
posted by
Ciel
on February 9, 2007 at 10:04 AM
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Blond
Thanks for revealing so much about yourself that I am sure is hard to write.
posted by
Justi
on July 22, 2006 at 1:24 PM
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arGee
I have a photo posted on my Blog entitled To My Estranged Mother
posted by
BlondeAmbition007
on July 22, 2006 at 7:50 AM
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Hey, Blondy...
Post a photo of yourself – I suspect you're drop-dead gorgeous.
posted by
arGee
on July 22, 2006 at 7:37 AM
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Passion
Thanks Passion....love is so confusing.........but I know in my heart that this isn't love....but I truly believe that in his own way...B.T loves me, but I think he has a sickness just like my mother did........sad, but I know he doesn't mean any real harm to me.....and I know my mother didn't either, but never the less......I do want to be happy.....just like everyone else.....I think that is a goal for us all and a never ending journey most of the time......thanks for stopping by.
posted by
BlondeAmbition007
on July 19, 2006 at 3:35 PM
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He doesn't really understand you or deserve your love though-
posted by
Passionflower
on July 19, 2006 at 12:22 PM
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