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Thank you for all this info, I am jealous because of the insecure feeling I get from men cheating on me.
posted by
Lanetay
on May 29, 2006 at 5:38 PM
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I have been to some amazing therapists, with very unique
forms of therapy. Our dearest one, who we spent many years going to on and off for various reasons( predominately growth) has now passed away, and taken his amazing emotional/mind solving capacity with him to the grave. He wasn't ready to share his technique with any one, but by the time he thought about it, it was too late. He seriously could have been the next einstein regards how the mind works.
Now in his mind, jealousy is a negative emotion. Its a mirror image of a problem that isn't to do with the person that the jealousy is directed at, but more about the person who is the jealous one. It kinda presents itself as jealousy, but is in reality, more of an insecurity from the jealous one.
The jealous person is insecure about being left, they fear being not loved in return for their affections, the jealousy is a way of hiding their own insecurities. Often, a jealous person, will in fact, be the person who does the cheating. Thats so they don't get to be the hurt one, just in case, the person that the jealousy is directed at, actually does go off and leave them, they cant take the risk, so commit the crime instead. Often, they will not settle into great long term relationships. They tend to make sure they sabotage them somehow, so they can say " see, I told you so, I knew it wouldnt last"
Also, what we hate in life, anything we hate, be it spiders, snakes, fire, planes, enclosed spaces, is in fact what we fear!!!. To get rid of both of those negative emotions in life, we can easily learn not to hate something,, then we wont fear it!!
He had another great saying, don't worry about something. WORRY SOLVES NOTHING!! and he's right, worrying doesn't solve anything, but action can solve your worries!!
So take action, not worry!!
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justright
on May 29, 2006 at 3:38 PM
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