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                    Like accidents, I tend to steer clear of a blogger fight.  I am more 
                
                likely to drop in on a very clever blog title or post title and a good non-de-plume.  However, if I happen to drop in while a tiff is on, I have no problem interjecting. 
                
                    posted by
                    saul_relative
                     on June 4, 2006 at 10:14 AM
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                    I too find that being in hte middle of fights drains me emotionally
                
                even if I have not contributed one bit to the fight
                
                    posted by
                    Straightforward
                     on May 29, 2006 at 8:37 AM
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                    Hi, Julia,
                
                I try to keep my distance from other people's squabbles, whenever possible.  It's not something that needs anymore fuel from "on lookers".  Last weekend, I found a cool T-shirt at WalMart that reads, "I Don't Do Drama".  I've worn it twice since then, and have gotten a few compliments on it.  I try to live my life without the drama.  It makes life so much simpler, to me.  :)
                
                    posted by
                    BlackPearl1
                     on May 28, 2006 at 3:13 PM
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                    Julia,
                
                No way!  I'm never happy seeing anyone fight.
                
                    posted by
                    Amanda__
                     on May 27, 2006 at 3:37 PM
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                    Julia, "Trainwreck" is right
                
                I've wondered that so often myself, about Blogit. About those who stir the pot and set out to create ersatz drama are rewarded with clicks.  It almost seems like rats pushing the lever for more cheese, even if the cheese is rotten.  I get drained myself. I am sick and tired of the phony wars, and simply want to be left to write in peace the way I did when I first started writing here.  
  In the beginning, I was oblivious and just wrote whatever was on my mind.  Over time, I feel like I've gotten an additional education in human nature and it isn't pretty.  I will debate on issues, but when it comes to slinging mud count me out. I'm not even sure I want to stick around if the ugliness continues.  
                
                    posted by
                    Blanche.
                     on May 27, 2006 at 10:20 AM
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                    I must have missed something
                
                I'm here in my happy little world with no fighting in sight.
                
                    posted by
                    bel_1965
                     on May 26, 2006 at 5:55 PM
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                    Well, here I am lost on the sidelines.
                
                Not even sorry....Think I'll treat myself to a cone at McDonald's. Sort of a prize for being clueless.
                
                    posted by
                    Whacky
                     on May 26, 2006 at 5:02 PM
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                    It's true....Chris and I are spatting.
                
                I hate him.  He's a cad and an unfeeling beast.
  
  And frankly, he can't satisfy me.  Damn, I want him!!
                
                    posted by
                    mark2556
                     on May 26, 2006 at 2:13 PM
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                    I always seem to miss the fights...
                
                either I travel in the wrong circles here (maybe the right ones!) or I'm away for too long in between blogs - a week is a long time on blogit!
                
                    posted by
                    littlemspickles
                     on May 26, 2006 at 2:10 PM
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                    I stopped looking at accidents, when I saw a body being put 
                
                into a bag....(shudders)  As for the blogit fights, sometimes it amuses me, other times it's sad, especially when your friends are involved.
                
                    posted by
                    shelly_b
                     on May 26, 2006 at 1:56 PM
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