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posted by majroj on April 25, 2006 at 10:35 PM | link to this | reply

It all depends upon the people involved.
I, for example, am pretty safe going out with even the most gorgeous of men (if he wanted to go someplace with me that is.)  I have my own high standards to maintain.  Sometimes I wish it weren't so

posted by FactorFiction on April 25, 2006 at 7:14 AM | link to this | reply

Azur
I love the headline, Azur.  He will return refreshed and full of zest.  As you know, everyone needs time away from their desk. When are you having your time off?

posted by johnmacnab on April 25, 2006 at 5:25 AM | link to this | reply

You are great!!....you indeed have an excellent trusting relationship...
Take care - I have missed you....

posted by _Symphony_ on April 25, 2006 at 4:50 AM | link to this | reply

That was

very well written.

Jo

posted by brisbane_artist on April 25, 2006 at 3:32 AM | link to this | reply

Ginnieb, it is very easy for them to have that friendship
there  is absolutely no frisson between them. There were many opportunities for something to  develop and yet it never did

posted by Azur on April 24, 2006 at 9:13 PM | link to this | reply

How awesome to have that kind of relationship...
..him with her and him with you and you with him and you with her!  Whew!  I totally agree that those kind of tight-knit and reliable friendships should be nutured not curtailed.  She sounds like she has an interesting job!  I've often wondered what it would take to write that stuff...ya sure gotta have your facts straight!

posted by ginnieb on April 24, 2006 at 8:30 PM | link to this | reply

Fascinating post on several levels Azur

posted by Katray2 on April 24, 2006 at 7:15 PM | link to this | reply

Jazwolf
Yes, I have had the same experience  -in some cases you can't recognize your words when they appear.  The variety within that market is also immense.  When mixing with my tabloid friends it is almost as if we have entirely different careers.  Good to see you again!

posted by Azur on April 24, 2006 at 5:37 PM | link to this | reply

Azur--- Related to your comments about tabloid journalism: For awhile
I wrote for a publication in Great Britain. I often was shocked by the sensational headlines that appeared above my work. And this wasn't a tabloid newspaper. It was a business publication.  That was an interesting lesson in the differences between two cultures.

posted by Jazwolf on April 24, 2006 at 5:24 PM | link to this | reply

Brettnik
I  agree. I don't think that marrying one man or woman is good enough reason to cease social interaction with all others.  By making it a big deal of it interaction becomes less ordinary and that's when trouble begins. In fact were my husband and me to restrict ourselves in that way that would create tension faster than anything

posted by Azur on April 24, 2006 at 5:15 PM | link to this | reply

My husband thought it was quite good of him to let me go out
with my friend on Saturday---a man I've known since I was 3 who had a crush on me when he was 19 years old.  Plllleeeeaaassseee.  Men and women can be friends.  I told him it isn't nice of him.  It's what he should do.  Obviously, you feel the same way.

posted by brettnik on April 24, 2006 at 5:05 PM | link to this | reply

Azur - I know, but I thought I'd rib you a bit. MANY people would not ...
... appreciate or tolerate that get together, which is absurd, but real. I had you pegged as someone who would be bigger than that type of behavior and you didn't disappoint!

posted by blogflogger on April 24, 2006 at 3:15 PM | link to this | reply

blogflogger, I was thinking about the way many people
would react to their partner going out with someone of the opposite sex.  A certain paranoia

posted by Azur on April 24, 2006 at 3:10 PM | link to this | reply

_Uncle_Dave
They are always a good idea

posted by Azur on April 24, 2006 at 3:07 PM | link to this | reply

A-and-B, it's the only way to be
So many are paranoid if their partner exchanges so much as a nod at the opposite sex. True friendship and trust transcends that

posted by Azur on April 24, 2006 at 3:06 PM | link to this | reply

You have great confidence in your relationship.

(A)

posted by A-and-B on April 24, 2006 at 1:07 PM | link to this | reply

Wine. Book. Chocolate.

posted by _dave_says_ack_ on April 24, 2006 at 12:19 PM | link to this | reply

Azur - Catchy suject line. You reeled me in.

posted by blogflogger on April 24, 2006 at 8:40 AM | link to this | reply