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SYMPHONY,
It is ex's loss. You are beautiful... inside and out.
Have a wonderful day!
posted by
Amanda__
on April 5, 2006 at 6:48 AM
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posted by
Offy
on April 4, 2006 at 6:17 PM
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Thank you all so much for your comments...
Blanche...I will give that a go...thanks
posted by
_Symphony_
on April 4, 2006 at 6:16 AM
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SYMPHONY
It was good to read this. Thank you.
posted by
avant-garde
on April 4, 2006 at 4:59 AM
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It's worked for me a few times, Blackpearl,
just a trick to snap out of it.
posted by
Blanche.
on April 3, 2006 at 8:04 PM
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Also, thanks Blanche,
I think your trick works. :)
posted by
BlackPearl1
on April 3, 2006 at 8:02 PM
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Symphony,
I know that song, also. I think most of us have lived it at one time or another. People have a way of screwing with your self-esteem. I don't know if we ever completely get over it, but I hope you are at a point where you realize your inner and outer beauty. I've not much to go on, except your writing, but it's a good indication to me. Thanks. :)
posted by
BlackPearl1
on April 3, 2006 at 8:01 PM
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Symphony...
If there are two things you're most definitely not, it's fat and ugly...You're a beautiful person inside and out, and I am honoured, graced, and blessed to call you my friend...
posted by
lovelyladymonk
on April 3, 2006 at 7:36 PM
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Blanche's advice sounds good. Forget the negative by treating it with
contempt. You are what you are now.
posted by
_dave_says_ack_
on April 3, 2006 at 4:26 PM
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SYMPHONY, been there and still wearing the T-shirt! I won't tell you
something that you already know, so I will just say that, I am thinking of you!
angel
posted by
anglofinspirtion
on April 3, 2006 at 3:04 PM
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Symphony,
Here's a trick I learned from a friend about breaking out of the loop of negative mental tapes, especially hearing criticism and feeling bad about yourself. When you catch yourself thinking, "I can't do housework, I'm so lame" or "I'm fat and ugly, because so and so, said it", take a quick breath, turn your head quickly from right to left and blow it out, in a quick exhale. Do that three times.
It's just a mental trick to help snap you out of that negative mental place, but it's helped me to get over and be on my way to forgetting all the mean, sarcastic things my friend and roommate used to say to me about how bad I was at everything from housekeeping to cooking to the way I write, think and talk. Just blow it out like so much air.
posted by
Blanche.
on April 3, 2006 at 3:01 PM
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You look beautiful!
(B)
posted by
A-and-B
on April 3, 2006 at 2:57 PM
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Symphony
posted by
shelly_b
on April 3, 2006 at 2:49 PM
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