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posted by
_Symphony_
on March 23, 2006 at 10:57 AM
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My original answer remains the same.
I don't go running to volunteer info but at the same time, I don't lie for a scoundrel, either.
posted by
strat
on March 23, 2006 at 5:48 AM
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hiii
yes i would like to be told but when i was told i didnt believe & gave another chance just like your friend & paid the price for it...its good to break your faith yourself..rather than seeing it being shattered.
posted by
abhilasha
on March 23, 2006 at 5:46 AM
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I've been on both sides...or actually all 4
I've had a friends boyfriend try to cheat with me ...when I told her ..she didn't believe me ..they are not married and we don't talk anymore.
If given the choice ..I would tell my best friend ....
I've been cheated on ...by two ex's ...one of them I was told about ..and was thankful I found on no matter how much it hurt. ...the other cheated on me with a friend ..who never told me. I found out this summer (the actual dating /cheating etc was about 9 years ago) ...
To sum it up ..I don't think there is an easy way to find out about someone cheating ...it hurts and you usually end up pissed at everyone ..but then you usually end up hating yourself the most because you always sorta knew something was happening ...you just ignored all the signs.
posted by
Okie
on March 22, 2006 at 9:19 AM
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life is just sooooooooooooooooooooo complex
I think I would need to find out for myself!
posted by
brisbane_artist
on March 22, 2006 at 1:37 AM
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Symph... I still say the same thing,
as long as I myself knew he was cheating I would tell. But if I just heard gossip, I wouldn't say a word. And yes, I'd still want to know if it were fact!
posted by
RedHeadedGypsy
on March 21, 2006 at 12:37 PM
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SYMPHONY
I,d rather hide my head in the sand and not know or tell luv
posted by
WileyJohn
on March 21, 2006 at 9:10 AM
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Erraturm.
Should be: 'I will not tell.'
Sorry... Prof
posted by
PROF-SUMAKEL33
on March 21, 2006 at 1:45 AM
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I will no tell.
Dear Symphony.. Even if I saw it with my own eyes, I will not tell, unless a relative of mine is involved.
regards.. Prof
posted by
PROF-SUMAKEL33
on March 21, 2006 at 1:45 AM
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It is really a no win situation.
posted by
Whacky
on March 20, 2006 at 7:03 PM
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Symphony,
I don't know what I'd do. I'm just glad I don't have to deal with that situation right now. It's not easy.
posted by
Blanche.
on March 20, 2006 at 6:09 PM
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Thank you very much for shairng...Nanaroo
posted by
_Symphony_
on March 20, 2006 at 2:41 PM
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Symphony
interesting questions... My answers are Yes I would tell her, and Yes I would like to be told!
posted by
Nanaroo
on March 20, 2006 at 2:38 PM
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hehehe thanks for sharing again....ginnieb ...and yes it does fly by..
very much so!!!
posted by
_Symphony_
on March 20, 2006 at 2:21 PM
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hahaha scriber ...you are very welcome...
thank you very much for entertaining me...
posted by
_Symphony_
on March 20, 2006 at 2:20 PM
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I said that? Hehe...
..I'd still say the same thing and wow...6 months just flies by!!
posted by
ginnieb
on March 20, 2006 at 2:16 PM
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Symp--answered this on one of your other blogs, lol. so, will say for
the other blog, thanks for reading me.
posted by
scriber
on March 20, 2006 at 2:16 PM
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Yeah six months does...I agree..
posted by
_Symphony_
on March 20, 2006 at 2:15 PM
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Thanks for sharing...A-and-B
posted by
_Symphony_
on March 20, 2006 at 2:15 PM
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6 months seem an eternity. I've seen at least two women cheating but haven't told. Let them work it out or Fate work it out for them.
(A)
posted by
A-and-B
on March 20, 2006 at 2:09 PM
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Thank you so much for sharing, LaylaBeth!
I'm sorry that you were a victim of cheating...but I hope you are the one laughing now (so to speak) take care...
posted by
_Symphony_
on March 20, 2006 at 1:47 PM
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Yes. I would want to be told...and I believe that...
..I would tell.
My ex cheated and I found out the hard way--when he was DUMPING me! I wish I'd have known in advance.
Good post, Symphony!
~LB~ xo
posted by
Anony_Miss
on March 20, 2006 at 1:33 PM
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You are so brave...Passionflower
I love the "get up and go" about you...I wish I could do more things on impulse!....good for you...I admire you..
posted by
_Symphony_
on March 20, 2006 at 1:32 PM
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No problem, Symphony...
I'm anxious to get back to work soon. Hopefully, once I sign the papers on the house on Friday, I'll get deployed. I'm rested and ready.
posted by
Passionflower
on March 20, 2006 at 1:29 PM
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Thank you very much for sharing...again Justsouno ...I love ya too!
Yes it is a painful place to be...
I would not tell just anybody....I have to be close like I am/was (to tell) with my best friend (it took me a few days to tell, but I felt in the end it was right, and it was)
posted by
_Symphony_
on March 20, 2006 at 1:28 PM
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Symphony, I think I still feel as I did on my last comment. I feel
this is an incredibly heavy load to carry. I would not want someone to tell me they slept with my friend's boy or girlfriend. No way, don't tell me such junk. Painful place. I still could not tell. If I did she would have to do something, If I didn't I don't know that she doesn't know and may be she is trying to sort out the best way..... I don't know is the bottom line. Love ya!
posted by
Justi
on March 20, 2006 at 1:25 PM
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hehehe thanks Passionflower ...I can always rely on you for an honest -
open answer.....
thank you so much for sharing.....(sorry for the reminder of your work)
posted by
_Symphony_
on March 20, 2006 at 1:24 PM
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Symphony...I never got to read this post or participate -
On Sept 1 of 2005 when you first wrote it, Hurricane Katrina had just made landfall in New Orleans and I was there working. So here are my answers:
Yes, I would tell my best friend what I had heard and let her discover if it was true or not.
And, Yes, I would want a friend to tell me if a guy was cheating on me.
Normally, I just get it straight at the beginning of a relationship whether we will be seeing others or not. I rarely date anyone exclusively and normally reserve the right to date other guys if I want to. That eliminates questions about faithfulness.
posted by
Passionflower
on March 20, 2006 at 1:18 PM
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