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aberjhani
I agree that it is strange when traditional symbols of love are continuously chosen. But, to the one who seriously questions it..

posted by avant-garde on March 19, 2006 at 1:00 PM | link to this | reply

Tons of real power
in this particular write. Serious doubts about most people being able to handle it:-) Nervertheless, glad you put these ideas out here.
Aberjhani

posted by Aberjhani on March 19, 2006 at 12:51 PM | link to this | reply

yes indeed
and i'm glad that i also choose knowing that there may not be any pay off...but i'm rewarded that theres someone with purity residing in my heart & its great....

posted by abhilasha on March 18, 2006 at 10:40 PM | link to this | reply

Isa
Yes, you have understood. Love needs nothing from us, other than to be itself. Thank you.

posted by avant-garde on March 18, 2006 at 7:05 AM | link to this | reply

love is something free...
it becomes divine when we don't necessarely expect love in return...the notion of unconditional love is a divine concept as far as i am concerned...

posted by Marshallengraved on March 18, 2006 at 4:56 AM | link to this | reply

abhilasha
Yes. It appears hard, because there seems to be no payoff. Yet, what if we knew that the payoff was limitless joy, infinite patience, and complete freedom? Then it would be easy to choose.

posted by avant-garde on March 18, 2006 at 4:28 AM | link to this | reply

Black Pearl
Pinning down something that is limitless, without boundaries, and completely free denies its existence. This is self-evident. The only way to move towards it, then is to negate what it is not.

posted by avant-garde on March 18, 2006 at 4:27 AM | link to this | reply

Bright
Right you are. Only in freeing others are we ourselves free. Thank you.

posted by avant-garde on March 18, 2006 at 4:26 AM | link to this | reply

appleworks
All action springs from the thoughts that create it. When the mind seeks happiness, it is assuming, first of all, that it knows what it is and how to get it. Does that not imply that unhappiness is the fact, and happiness is the goal?

Though there may be a temporary achievement, which we call happiness, it is mere satisfaction at having escaped unhappiness. In reality, there is no escape. It is merely a cover, through which unhappiness always returns.

Happiness is the realization of how we perpetuate the unhappiness, and cease doing it.

posted by avant-garde on March 18, 2006 at 4:25 AM | link to this | reply

nanaroo
Thank you for the kind words.

posted by avant-garde on March 18, 2006 at 4:21 AM | link to this | reply

mr nobody
Thank you for visiting and commenting. Have a great weekend!

posted by avant-garde on March 18, 2006 at 4:20 AM | link to this | reply

hiiii..
so very true but very hard to practice...

posted by abhilasha on March 17, 2006 at 11:36 PM | link to this | reply

avant-garde,
Very nice post about love.  It's really hard to pin down, so I guess we shouldn't try to.  Thanks.  :)

posted by BlackPearl1 on March 17, 2006 at 9:08 PM | link to this | reply

avant-garde
 Very nice thoughts! I firmly beleive that love can only exist when we allow the other person the freedom to be and each person strives to help the other.

posted by BrightIrish on March 17, 2006 at 8:08 PM | link to this | reply

avant

what are your thoughts on alcohol and drugs in relation to happiness? or the chemicals our bodies naturally produce to stimulate happiness.

What you write of seems entirely spiritual and our bodies have a part to play as well.

posted by appleworks7 on March 17, 2006 at 6:49 PM | link to this | reply

avante
how nice!

posted by Nanaroo on March 17, 2006 at 1:53 PM | link to this | reply

thank you
thank you for your wonderful perspective

posted by mr-nobody1 on March 17, 2006 at 1:50 PM | link to this | reply

sannhet
Yes, of course. Isolate yourself, and you will only deprive yourself of the joy of love.

posted by avant-garde on March 17, 2006 at 1:26 PM | link to this | reply

Avant -
Good post. In the duality of this world, we definitely need something to experience love.

posted by sannhet on March 17, 2006 at 1:18 PM | link to this | reply

Rcky
That's very kind, but I don't feel much like a guru. I feel very ordinary.

posted by avant-garde on March 17, 2006 at 1:02 PM | link to this | reply

Avant....
I was talking about you? You always have words of inspiration and love....it fits you!

posted by RckyMtnActivist on March 17, 2006 at 12:01 PM | link to this | reply

Rcky
What guru?

posted by avant-garde on March 17, 2006 at 11:58 AM | link to this | reply

anthony
I was thinking of you and abhilasha when I wrote this. When I first came across this information, it was like a light bulb went off. I hope you have a great weekend, my friend.

posted by avant-garde on March 17, 2006 at 11:58 AM | link to this | reply

elysia
Distorted is an understatement! Thank you.

posted by avant-garde on March 17, 2006 at 11:56 AM | link to this | reply

Avant....
Choices...let's see the rock star or the spiritual guru? Hmmmmm....LOL

posted by RckyMtnActivist on March 17, 2006 at 11:55 AM | link to this | reply

malcolm
My friend, you have stated something that is splendid! Yes, independence is possible between two people. Thank you.

posted by avant-garde on March 17, 2006 at 11:54 AM | link to this | reply

Rcky
Great comment. Thank you. Yes, I read it and responded. I think I might take a back seat to this rock star, though!

posted by avant-garde on March 17, 2006 at 11:53 AM | link to this | reply

DrJPT
Truer words were never spoken. Thanks so much!

posted by avant-garde on March 17, 2006 at 11:52 AM | link to this | reply

avant-garde

Some days I just get so much life out of your post my friend.

"We are indebted to each of those who make the experience of love possible, but we are not shackled to them."

Yes, yes, yes, and I realize I don't want the shackles!!!

posted by WileyJohn on March 17, 2006 at 11:31 AM | link to this | reply

avant
i couldn't agree more. love is what we are - we just don't always recognise it - sometimes love gets distorted in the filters of our perception

posted by astromuffy on March 17, 2006 at 10:19 AM | link to this | reply

I'm very much in love
and have never felt shackled by my wife. Independence and freedom are perfectly possible within a relationship if both people really wish it.

posted by malcolm on March 17, 2006 at 10:02 AM | link to this | reply

Avant....

I believe a man and a woman complete each other..it's the yin-yang energy.As for love of others I try to love others unconditionally! This post was beautiful, as always.  And, did you check out Blackcat's post on the Blogit Ball. She thinks you and I are a good match to go to the ball! ...check it out.... it's funny!

posted by RckyMtnActivist on March 17, 2006 at 7:51 AM | link to this | reply

Very True
It is through freedom and giving of self that one experiences love.  Coercion and guilt will not bring it to us!  Nice!

posted by Dr_JPT on March 17, 2006 at 5:35 AM | link to this | reply

elysia
That's very humbling to hear. Glad to be of service to you.

posted by avant-garde on March 17, 2006 at 5:20 AM | link to this | reply

avant
again, you may have inspired another blog!

posted by astromuffy on March 17, 2006 at 5:09 AM | link to this | reply