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No, dear Maggie,
I A-M O-V-E-R the other man. I am relieved it is over and I just meant that I'm being wiped off his radar screen. I should be able to be strong enough do the same thing. In other words, if he can do it, well then, so can I. Maybe I should have used the word competetiveness instead of stubborn. (Like in that song, anything you can do I can do better.) I never stopped loving my Jay. Mike wouldn't have taken me back.
Jay did.
I know that Jay is my jewel.
He proved to be the bigger man, just as he said he would.
Cee
posted by
LadyCeeMarie
on February 7, 2006 at 5:39 PM
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Dear Cee,
I hope I didn't read into your response what I did, that being that you have told yourself that you're going to be happy with Jay just because Mike had told you that he's going to make it with his wife.
I think what I want to say is that that's not a good reason for you to be happy with Jay, spitefulness. Be happy with him because you love him, Cee. I think he is a man who will return it ten-fold once he's convinced you mean it.
Be happy, be healthy, and God bless you both. 
posted by
MaggieMae
on February 7, 2006 at 4:34 PM
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Hi Maggie,
Well, if I do that, I'll run out of a lot of material to write about. He's got to become just a character to me more than anything. I DO want to be 100% present for Jay. If Mike is doing that for his wife, it means he's getting me off his radar screen as well. I keep thinking of that and the stubborn part of me says equal treatment, so he's not going to be a presence in my marriage. Just think of him as a character. Maybe I should rename him?
Cee
posted by
LadyCeeMarie
on February 6, 2006 at 6:41 PM
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Cee, I pray for the day when you have Mike out of you head for good. Jay deserves that, you know?
posted by
MaggieMae
on February 6, 2006 at 3:49 PM
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Maggie, you speak the truth . . .
What a nice tribute to my husband you just wrote. I tell him about you, so I will show him this. He likes to know what I'm doing on the computer and I don't blame him.
I know and Mike knows that this is the day, one year ago on Feb. 5th, the card from KU arrived at his house, telling him I was looking up old friends because I had cancer. I had my surgery on the 9th. Hard to believe all this started just one year ago.
I am doing all that I can to rectify my wrongs of last year. Jay is my jewel and we are rebuilding the break in our bond. Thanks for the support always, dear Maggie!
Cee
posted by
LadyCeeMarie
on February 5, 2006 at 9:26 AM
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He sounds like a wonderful husband to me and if I were you, I would do my
darndest to hold onto him, Cee. Those kinds are rare and hard to find. You've really got the best of both worlds, you know? You had the affair and he's taken you back and it sounds to me as if he's trying really hard to help you work it out. That doesn't happen too, too often. You are a fortunate woman.
posted by
MaggieMae
on February 5, 2006 at 8:49 AM
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