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- Go to HE BEAT HIS WIFE IN FULL VIEW OF EVERYBODY - DOMESTIC VIOLENCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Bud-Oracle
I do not understand your comment to me?...please reflect...
posted by
_Symphony_
on February 1, 2006 at 6:12 AM
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Blanche_DuBois
Thank you ever so much for sharing this with me....it must have been very hard...I am sorry....I really appreciate you reading and sharing this with me
posted by
_Symphony_
on February 1, 2006 at 6:10 AM
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This is just more foundation for my belief that we are not meant to be in
permanent monogamus relationships. Why must you stay? You haven't explained it to me.
When we go against our nature, because of convention and religion, things can get dangerous.
Why must a woman submit to this?
posted by
Bud-Oracle
on January 31, 2006 at 5:35 PM
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Symphony,
This was a hard post to read, but well worth reading because you spelled out exactly the pattern that happens in an abusive relationship (it's not always the man doing the abusing either). But it was hard to read because this is what happened to my mother, the man she married when I was 23 (already in college and 150 miles away), started in with all these tricks: trash talking, "joking" sarcastic put-downs, isolation. The worst is she and I became more isolated (we had our own issues, but I think we might have worked them out sooner, if it hadn't been for his "mind control") The problem is that my mother never was very assertive, and she was "ripe" for this kind of control, because of her father and how she grew up.
It is heart breaking, isn't it, to walk into the situation, like you did with the woman in the bathroom, wiping the blood off her face and hear her blaming herself! I've heard those excuses, too. It's why I had to stay away from my Mom so long, because I knew I couldn't witness that and not do something violent. It still left scars on us both. As horrible as it sounds, I'm not sorry he's dead, it's a relief, but still too little too late, after 23 years.
posted by
Blanche.
on January 31, 2006 at 2:47 PM
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Thanks for reading it again OFFBEATS
and thank you for sharing
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 31, 2006 at 1:47 PM
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SYMPHONY
I remember this and yes it is good to get it back out there again. I think at one time I knew someone who resembled this situation, but she managed to get away before the physical abuse became the norm!
posted by
Offy
on January 31, 2006 at 1:34 PM
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Yes I agree, A-and-B .......Thanks for reading and sharing.
Take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 31, 2006 at 1:33 PM
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Men get crap from male buddies too. No matter how many chances we give for the hoped changeover to a new leaf, some people just continue to disappoint us.
(B)
posted by
A-and-B
on January 31, 2006 at 1:26 PM
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Thank you very much for reading and commenting...curator
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 31, 2006 at 12:35 PM
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This needed to be said
And everything you said is true...thank you for doing it.
posted by
curator
on January 31, 2006 at 12:30 PM
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Thank you very much for reading and commenting mira1
I will take a look at the link....thanks for that!......its so good when you "get out" of the "trap" and find your own two feet isn't it?....I too had to pick myself up too, but I write about that in my single life blog.....thanks again take care...I hope you are relaxing now
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 31, 2006 at 12:28 PM
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Hello Symphony,
Thanks for your visit, as for your post - it's very interesting, unfortunately I know quite a lot about such men (abusers, psychopaths) - if you wanna know more, I recommend the page
www.lovefraud.com , I found help there a few months ago.
posted by
mira1
on January 31, 2006 at 12:18 PM
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you are wonderful Justsouno ...you always have to power to make one feel
good about themselves.....thank you very much for that....I went back to sassmeback post and read your comment and it made perfect sense to me...I hope God has forgiven me for some of my wrong doings...I think he has - as I have made up for those mistakes...I try to be a good person and feel guilty if I am not...so I guess I am on the right track.....Thank you so much for everything and for always being there......love ya
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 31, 2006 at 12:11 PM
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Symphony this is a good post. Any man who stands by idly while
a man beats his wife is as guilty as the man. I saw your note on sassmeback and know you are doing the best you can to live a good life. I have written to her on there see if it makes sense to you. Violence is totally of Satan and not of God. It is a good thing to talk against family abuse as much as is possible. People, no people should have to live in fear of the person whom they thought loved them or the person whom they loved. God bless you dear little good mum.
posted by
Justi
on January 31, 2006 at 11:22 AM
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Thanks anthony1wiley
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 31, 2006 at 10:22 AM
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Thank you scriber
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 31, 2006 at 10:21 AM
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Yes, you are totally right....anglofinspirtion
Thanks for reading and commenting
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 31, 2006 at 10:21 AM
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Thanks lovelyladymonk
posted by
_Symphony_
on January 31, 2006 at 10:20 AM
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SYMPHONY
Well said luv.
posted by
WileyJohn
on January 31, 2006 at 9:36 AM
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SYMPHONY--I didn't read this before, but you nailed it for sure.
A must read.
posted by
scriber
on January 31, 2006 at 8:57 AM
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Very well said, SYMPHONY,
I couldn't have said it better! Those reading must remember that it will take probably two or more times leaving before a person leaves for good, so be patient and help if you can! Believe me, if a person feels they can leave, they will.
Angela
posted by
anglofinspirtion
on January 31, 2006 at 8:57 AM
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I agree, Love...
We don't understand what it's like until we've been through it ourselves. We must speak out for those who can't. And pray to God in Heaven they escape the situation before it's too late...
posted by
lovelyladymonk
on January 31, 2006 at 7:57 AM
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