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Azur - Or, the 4th category
4) That is the relationship I have with that individual, and we constantly use the other to try on new ideas, look for a broader view, experience the passion of both sides of an issue. Whomever starts the conversation, the other has to defend the opposing view. Sort of like a two-person debating society. Its quite enlightening.
posted by
blogflogger
on February 2, 2006 at 1:00 PM
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It might be improved by negotiation
but on the other hand that takes a lot of effort when someone is locked into a way of thinking. Sometimes it is best left
posted by
Azur
on February 2, 2006 at 12:35 PM
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Doesn't sound as is you think
negotiation would be helpful.
I find people do change their minds,
Jo
posted by
brisbane_artist
on February 2, 2006 at 12:05 PM
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posted by
_Symphony_
on February 2, 2006 at 4:12 AM
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If people always side against you
it just means they opposing views. What is really telling is what happens after they disagree. How happy are they with resolution? And are they willing to honestly consider your view and agree after careful consideration.
posted by
_the_staggering_genius_
on February 1, 2006 at 9:05 AM
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Good post. Too bad it's true!
posted by
Original_Influence
on February 1, 2006 at 4:20 AM
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Almost everyone has their own interests at heart.
(B)
posted by
A-and-B
on January 31, 2006 at 5:20 PM
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Nicely put!!!
I would hope that if there were only THREE people left on the planet, that I wouldn't be among them if my son weren't among them...
But you are right--friends would come in handy then!!! :-) ~L~ xoxo
posted by
Anony_Miss
on January 30, 2006 at 2:35 PM
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Didn't know you had so many blogs Azur!
More to pop into my favourites list now!
posted by
ginnieb
on January 21, 2006 at 10:20 PM
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It means, you are a genuis?
(A)
posted by
A-and-B
on January 21, 2006 at 1:42 PM
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FactorFiction, that is not possible because....
I'm told most plainly that I'm wrong .... always
posted by
Azur
on January 19, 2006 at 12:33 PM
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Maybe the OTHER person is ALWAYS wrong??
Well, it works for some...
posted by
FactorFiction
on January 19, 2006 at 7:03 AM
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If someone is naturally argumentative they take sides against everyone
I think
posted by
Azur
on January 19, 2006 at 5:33 AM
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sometimes I find that the other person is just naturally argumentative.
posted by
-blackcat
on January 19, 2006 at 5:19 AM
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I'm regularly told it's No.3
posted by
Azur
on January 19, 2006 at 4:59 AM
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hmmm, so which is it with you dear?
posted by
Ariala
on January 19, 2006 at 4:56 AM
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