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atigam
Maybe the reason I categorized men is because I have been single for a very long time and there has only been a few times I have dated a man my age or even close.  Men in general are looking for a chick to satisfy their ego and not the other way around. I am with a man at least 20 years younger, because I too act very young, but in most cases, menget what you want and move on.  And there are a lot of gold digger woman out there too.

posted by Lanetay on January 6, 2006 at 10:44 AM | link to this | reply

old fart??

Perhaps the reason you can't find a good man is because you indulge in stereotypes and categorize? As an older man or "old fart," as you put it, I have dated women my age, some older, and some younger. I judge women individually, not by their age group or, for that matter, ethnicity. The women I have dated have always been surprised by my age because I "act younger" than I am. This doesn't mean that I drink standing on my head, moon people from a moving car, or get into fist fights. I simply don't think about my age a lot and the barriers it supposedly presents and continue to play sports and write, direct and act in plays, and dance at clubs, etc.

Good men are out there. They're harder to find, though, if you put them into tidy definitions and roles and don't give them a chance to show that they are something beyond your preconceived notions.

posted by atigam on January 6, 2006 at 10:33 AM | link to this | reply

jojostar
I think I have one, but time will tell

posted by Lanetay on January 6, 2006 at 10:14 AM | link to this | reply

Lilane
If you figure out how to find a quality man, please fill me in. I'm sincerely at a loss.

posted by jojostar on January 6, 2006 at 10:11 AM | link to this | reply