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falconeye
She has a way to get things out of me, my badgering me into confession. I did everything I could to keep her from knowing he and I had been together. Sometimes I think its jealousy. She hasn't got a boyfriend right now and her best friend has been gone for a month, another friend lost her bother to a rare disease, and one is buys raising two kids at the age of 20. Pretty tough lives these others have, guess she wants to mother me. Never has a man slept in my bed.
posted by
Lanetay
on January 4, 2006 at 5:33 PM
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Daughter control.
The worst thing you could do is to kick her out. Help guide her into being able to take care of herself. Schooling, training. I sent my daughter into the navy after she graduated from high school. She never regrets a day of it. She spent 4 years in the Navy and met her husband there, got married and has been on her own ever since. Once your daughter finds her nitch in this world then she won't be such a pain. She'll be concentrating more on her own life. It'll all turn out believe me. Until then make sure there is no way she can find out about your private sex life. Best to keep it private, then she'll have no reason to call you a slut. Don't just bring any man home for her to meet. Make sure that if you bring someone over for dinner that you know him well and that he is someone special in your life. Don't let her think that you would just hook up with just anyone for sex. I think sex should be with someone special and not random.
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falconeye
on January 4, 2006 at 2:30 PM
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DrJPT
She makes good points but when she found out I was with a man in the hotel she called me a slut. Because we only known each other for a month and she says she is afraid what is going to happen to me.
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Lanetay
on January 4, 2006 at 1:45 PM
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Help Her Out...
Out of your house. At 19 she is old enough! Do not let her control you another day, for that is the wrong order. Somehow and at some time you gave up control to her by allowing her to use emotional blackmail on you. Break the cycle, little by little if you are unable to "just do It"!! Enough is enough and shock therapy may be necessary. Get a firm tone and tell her how it is going to be and do not allow her to bully you!!
posted by
Dr_JPT
on January 4, 2006 at 1:21 PM
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