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It's never too soon.
Relax, have fun, and focus on the evening, not on what can go wrong, or your ex.
posted by
Rhiannon1
on October 28, 2005 at 3:53 PM
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Why not give it a try...
you have nothing to lose, after all
posted by
Marshallengraved
on October 28, 2005 at 1:28 PM
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Nah Mia....
...go out and have fun!!
posted by
ginnieb
on October 28, 2005 at 12:01 PM
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Enjoy yourself!
Keep your integrity and have fun! He is another person - just keep telling yourself that, he is not him.....
posted by
SomeoneElse
on October 27, 2005 at 9:13 PM
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Only you know. It would be too soon for me. Heck, 3 1/2 years is too soon for me, so I am clearly a freak. We are all hooked up differently. If you want to and are just going to go into it with no expectations, wanting merely to have a good time, then you should go, without question! Plus, I guess one never knows what might happen.
posted by
Holy_Grail
on October 27, 2005 at 8:10 PM
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MiaElla
You knoiw I shouild not even attempt to give you advice, you know my record. However my friend, I think you shouild go and try to have a good time. It's hard not to compare, but if you can avoid that mental challenge, you may just really enjoy yourself!! Good luck.
posted by
Offy
on October 27, 2005 at 10:40 AM
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You won't know unless you go
posted by
Azur
on October 27, 2005 at 10:28 AM
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What JoJo said
Listen to her she is a very wise woman...skip toe comparing unless you are thinking "This guy has a much better butt than my ex."
posted by
Bel_
on October 27, 2005 at 9:51 AM
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Mia, um...
That isn't what I was getting at, and if my previous comment made you feel worse, I am truly sorry.
My ex was constantly trying to get me to walk away because she had serious deservability issues (among other things). Nearly the whole time we were together, and at least twice an evening when we were together and just about everytime we were on the phone she was bringing up the subject of me walking away. I got tired of hearing it, and I should have walked when she first brought it up (New Rule as Bill Maher would say). I had my own issues and since I am not someone who is on anyone's speed dial, I believed beggars can't be choosers. I have since quit begging. But that is another discussion. So we finally broke up and yeah I was relieved because I was sick to death of hearing how I needed to leave.
posted by
AlienInsomniac
on October 27, 2005 at 9:11 AM
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I think it probably is too soon
it's only been a few days. But you know best
posted by
jollyjeff
on October 27, 2005 at 8:32 AM
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jojostar
your comment made me laugh...
i should go and have some fun
marriage....some guy will be absolutely lucky if he'll ever be able to convince me to get married...with the bad run of men I've dated lately.
posted by
MiaElla
on October 27, 2005 at 8:18 AM
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Do I think it's too soon?
Yes. do I think you should go? YES!! You don't have to marry the new guy. You just have to go and have a good time or at the very least allow yourself to be gushed upon by someone of the male species.
posted by
jojostar
on October 27, 2005 at 8:14 AM
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CesiumClockWatcher
Wish I felt relieved....but that's probably how my ex is feeling now that he no longer has to deal with me once a week....because that's all the time he had for me...(shrugs)
posted by
MiaElla
on October 27, 2005 at 8:13 AM
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Hard to say, Mia
I know when my last one ended I was too relieved to want to be bothered.
posted by
AlienInsomniac
on October 27, 2005 at 8:09 AM
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