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aria4
Yes, the most basic root of all our dilemmas.

posted by avant-garde on October 21, 2005 at 1:07 PM | link to this | reply

flame-thrower
You are a gentleman and a scholar.

posted by avant-garde on October 21, 2005 at 1:06 PM | link to this | reply

military wife
Yes. And the thing we want so much when we deny ourselves this simple thing is what we would have if we took responsibility for it!

posted by avant-garde on October 21, 2005 at 1:06 PM | link to this | reply

word.smith
Yes, that's it in a nutshell. What the world does can either be the source of sorrow, or a source of healing.

posted by avant-garde on October 21, 2005 at 1:05 PM | link to this | reply

Avant- So true!
The direction is determined within oneself. Call it conscience, morality, or ethics- it is the decision to love or to fear. All action springs from this seemingly innocuous choice.

posted by Aria4 on October 21, 2005 at 10:10 AM | link to this | reply

Thank you very much for reading. I am glad and impressed with your comments.

posted by Flame-thrower on October 21, 2005 at 9:11 AM | link to this | reply

The decision is yours
How I love that.   If more would take responsibility for their own happiness I think we would have a happier world in general.

posted by Bel_ on October 21, 2005 at 8:17 AM | link to this | reply

Decide to love and what the world does will be of no concern.
Simple statement, but it is true..It is like a something that GheeGhee (an ex-blogit member) wrote somet time ago - If you are a true believer, the actions of individuals mean nothing and the love of God means everything!

posted by word.smith on October 21, 2005 at 7:09 AM | link to this | reply

jeremy
Of course, you must say no in order to deal with anger appropriately. But, love is the transcendence of anger. So, we are talking of a 'both and' situation. To see oneself as taken advantage of is already choosing fear instead of love. The way I have learned it is that love is not what you take from a situation: it is what you decide to be in any given situation. When you are free, you won't hold another in chains of your expectancy.

posted by avant-garde on October 21, 2005 at 4:56 AM | link to this | reply

Hey Avant

last night thinking, I was trying to understand the way kindeness or love can be given as encouragement.This I dont think is always a good choice.If everyone around is loving does thiat not give a green light for whatever you choose, good or bad. Do you believe unconditional love also involves saying no?

your post touched on this, I remembered .Thanks avant

posted by appleworks7 on October 21, 2005 at 4:51 AM | link to this | reply