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Sannhet
Thanks....I guess it comes from all the practice I get struggling with my ego every day.
posted by
ravencat18
on October 17, 2005 at 4:04 PM
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Raven -
You hit the nail on the head with regard to Ego!
posted by
sannhet
on October 17, 2005 at 8:11 AM
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Avant
I agree with you. (being a reformed control freak) It's about recognizing what's important to me as a person & letting go of the rest; recognizing that I can't control my husband..not even me at all times; and recognizing that what punches my buttons in others is the lesson I need to learn about me & my behavior.
posted by
ravencat18
on October 17, 2005 at 6:39 AM
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ravencat
A very important message here. I asked my wife last week, 'Who on this earth do you have control over?' She said, 'Myself, sometimes.' The issue is really about control, insecurity, and blaming the other for what we refuse to acknowledge in ourselves.
posted by
avant-garde
on October 16, 2005 at 5:02 PM
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