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jacenta
he is a very adorable kitty. I wish we could own a cat, but the situation does not lend itself to it.
posted by
avant-garde
on October 14, 2005 at 6:56 AM
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avant-garde...
I try to be understanding and empathetic, but sometimes it is hard. ha-ha Thanks for the visit and comment on my Pet Blog. I think, Paws is actually beginning to like getting his picture taken. ha-ha ...........Have a great day!!!!!!
posted by
jacentaOld
on October 14, 2005 at 6:43 AM
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word.smith
I understand what you are saying. Many times it's not problem resolution, but choosing sides for battle. Thanks for the comment.
posted by
avant-garde
on October 14, 2005 at 5:09 AM
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Nowadays, I am a lot less
enthusiastic about giving help when people don't ask for it. About 10 years ago, I thought I was helping someone with a problem by not lying for her. She has hated me ever since. I've learnt to be careful about helping people when they don't ask for it. Sometimes even when people ask for help, they don't want it. It's just a means of finding out where the other party's mind is at.
posted by
word.smith
on October 14, 2005 at 5:04 AM
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lol that's true...
but what i said was theoretical...it is much more difficult to put in practice...
posted by
Marshallengraved
on October 13, 2005 at 12:40 PM
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sannhet
me, too. what else would it be saying if we tried to foist our views on others? that they are wrong? right and wrong do not exist, but are created when we desire to change another.
posted by
avant-garde
on October 13, 2005 at 8:23 AM
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isa
Yes, if everyone would tend to himself, there would be no arguments.
posted by
avant-garde
on October 13, 2005 at 8:22 AM
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Avant -
One of the hardest lessons I have learned is to wait for someone to ask for help - especially when it comes to personal or spiritual growth.
posted by
sannhet
on October 13, 2005 at 6:48 AM
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before finding faults elsewhere...
we can look at ourselves...we are all imperfect...once you start looking at your own mistakes, you have no time left for other ppl's mistakes lol i think that the first changes must come from ourselves...
posted by
Marshallengraved
on October 13, 2005 at 6:16 AM
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