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Yeah...I have a phobia about people who are commitment-phobic.

posted by Renigade on September 21, 2005 at 6:44 PM | link to this | reply

I am a commitment phobic!!! And I do run....   **sigh**     ... i guess when the person is special enough and is absofrikkinlootely perfect for me ill stick around....   hehehhee

posted by Tanoolicious on September 21, 2005 at 4:40 PM | link to this | reply

Mia Ella--
Did he actually say "I'm commitment phobic"?  I suppose there can be so many reasons someone might express that feeling, but sometimes some things just are not meant to be and it's not necessarily anybody's fault.  Of course I agree that if someone says this to you early in a relationship, that's the wrong relationship to be in.  But we don't always do what's "right" for us, do we?  Hemlocker

posted by Hemlocker on September 21, 2005 at 4:32 PM | link to this | reply

Another question is
How long, in how many ways, and why should one ask oneself the question: But why didn't they want to be with me?

I don't know which makes me angrier, that a relationship dissipated because they didn't want to be in it with me or that I ended up asking myself that question.

posted by AlienInsomniac on September 21, 2005 at 2:37 PM | link to this | reply

I think that people who can't show commitment to each other should be committed

posted by malcolm on September 21, 2005 at 2:36 PM | link to this | reply

Perhaps this inspires a post sometime, but I think commitment is the yeast to relationships...without it, all connections are shallow and brittle...

posted by blair_grattan on September 21, 2005 at 2:10 PM | link to this | reply

this is sooo true!   when said, it's definitely about the situation they are currently in.. becuase that person could meet someone else that same day and that phobia will be gone if it's the right person... however.. if you meet someone who you aren't involved with, and claims they are commitment phobic, do you dare explore dark waters?  hmmm...

posted by daisysface on September 21, 2005 at 12:43 PM | link to this | reply

It is very honest of you to accept that you did not know the manipulations present in the media. These days be very careful how you reas papers. Most of the time they claim America is held, but they fail to show the other sides of the story nor other countries. Thank very much for reading me and I hope you will come more often.

posted by Flame-thrower on September 21, 2005 at 11:53 AM | link to this | reply

Miaella
That's my favorite line!!! No seriously, I agree and hope u are ok!

posted by cosy on September 21, 2005 at 10:24 AM | link to this | reply

Mia...
How are you doing today?

posted by Marshallengraved on September 21, 2005 at 10:02 AM | link to this | reply

MiaElla
I feel your warmth through my computer !!! NiCe :)

posted by mysteria on September 21, 2005 at 9:54 AM | link to this | reply

mysteria
Because you are wonderful. You just need to fill your life with other big hearted people with lots of love!

posted by MiaElla on September 21, 2005 at 9:46 AM | link to this | reply

MiaElla
I'll testify.  My life is a textbook example of a masterpiece painting of broken hearts... I have this giant heart that I love to share with people.  But most of them, I'll never understand.  It's like they use it to wipe their feet on ... I don't know why I keep on trying...

posted by mysteria on September 21, 2005 at 9:43 AM | link to this | reply

mysteria
I feel the same...I'm at the end of my rope...Life has been so rough for me...I just want things to get easier, better, more secure....you know? Did you check out my poetry?

posted by MiaElla on September 21, 2005 at 9:38 AM | link to this | reply

Ouch MaMa That Is a sad but true truth

"I'm just about at

The end of my rope...

But I can't stop trying...

I can't give up hope..."

posted by mysteria on September 21, 2005 at 9:31 AM | link to this | reply