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Dear MiaElla, Last night I realized that part of the glorious expression

of freedom is our ability to build our own traps.  If a person could really stop blaming someone else for the traps he or she has gotten himself into, and just acknowledge that we get ourselves into our own traps (very unpopular idea, I know) we could -- COULD -- change the situation if we wanted to.  Feeling like a victim of someone else always gives that person all the power.  Why live that lie?  Anyway, that's my view.  By the way -- I like your sense of humor, and light-heartedness. (Oh, and by the way, the other side of our freedom is the right and ability to get ourselves out of the above-mentioned traps!)  What do you think?  

posted by Adaman on September 7, 2005 at 1:13 PM | link to this | reply

i know what you mean.that kind of situation is seen anywhere.a friend said to me that i should find someone who will bring the best out of me..maybe marriage changes people. i duno. i'm not in that circle yet..

posted by sunjae on September 5, 2005 at 10:00 PM | link to this | reply

Over the years
I've wondered why people who have chosen badly continue to do so even when presented with opportunities to choose someone else.

posted by AlienInsomniac on September 4, 2005 at 6:31 PM | link to this | reply

MiaElla
Beautiful post love and I totally agree with you. We must reflect each other and that's how it is with Liz that I met. I don't know much more about her except what she says and how she says it. I do know we have much the same spiritual belief's and we love the same things.Good luck with your pot sweetie, add lots of love to that stew sweetiepie.

posted by WileyJohn on September 3, 2005 at 10:30 AM | link to this | reply