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Rachelanna, Billy_cargo, Rgylford, & Unidentified Hacker
Okay, talked to Riel....I'm just a stupid woman who thinks too much. We talked and things are normal.....and he really is sick...I suppose I have an overactive imagination!!!! But can you blame me with all the things men put us through!=P
posted by
MiaElla
on August 19, 2005 at 3:40 PM
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billy_cargo
Well I didn't actually talk to him in person...so I don't really know if he's telling the truth or not. I like to think the best about people...but the truth is we are all fallable.
posted by
MiaElla
on August 19, 2005 at 9:35 AM
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what a wanker (or maybe we're jumping to conclusions)
posted by
FreeManWalking
on August 19, 2005 at 9:24 AM
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rgylford
Well I actually expected this to happen...
and thanks for the hug. 
posted by
MiaElla
on August 19, 2005 at 9:22 AM
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Mia
That sucks.
He should talk to you.
Hug
posted by
AlienInsomniac
on August 19, 2005 at 9:15 AM
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RachelAnna
And I've always wanted to visit Texas...lol....perhaps we can take turns visiting eachother....
I am a little disappointed with Riel...but men are just men, they sure aren't woman, and they sure aren't God....lol....so what did I expect???
posted by
MiaElla
on August 19, 2005 at 8:56 AM
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Unidentified_Hacker
But a month???...My non-sexual relationships lasted way longer than that. I guess it is time to impose the whole "wait three to six months before having sex" rule....lol...
posted by
MiaElla
on August 19, 2005 at 8:53 AM
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Wow.
I hope you guys don't break up, but I gotta be honest, emailing and telling you he's gonna be sick for the whole weekend in an email sounds fishy to me.
Yeah, breaking up with someone you are in love with and you lost your virginity to would suck--mine was that intense puppy love and even now 11 year later it still stings a bit when I think of him. Riel sounds like a nice guy, and you'll always remember him so at least you picked someone who was sweet to you no matter how long it lasts, you know?
Regret? Nah, it's not like you gave it up to the first guy who was interested so you should be satisfied. You've learned a lot about yourself and you've eased up a bit about the whole sex/marriage thing because of it, so it was worth it. Sometimes the payoffs aren't what we expect, they are even sweeter.
Boston, huh? I've always wanted to go to Boston. Maybe someday I'll have to come visit you!
posted by
RachelAnna
on August 19, 2005 at 8:09 AM
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Mia
Yeah, sex never really changes a relationship, at least not for the better. It can be an expansion of an already good relationship, but it is so (in most cases) emotionally involving for the individual that it can at time cause serious problems. I suppose it depends on how seriously each person involved takes the act of sex. Tricky stuff it is.
But hey, no regrets. You’ve freed yourself from the fears and restrictions that your virginity held on you. Time for life to go on =)
posted by
Unidentified_Hacker
on August 19, 2005 at 8:09 AM
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