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Mia you're 100% right...they should know better...been there...it sucks

posted by cosy on August 23, 2005 at 1:55 PM | link to this | reply

Original_Influence

True and babies in boxers still suck on nipples......LMAO

posted by MiaElla on August 17, 2005 at 12:35 PM | link to this | reply

Babies in boxers seem to be quite common.

posted by Original_Influence on August 17, 2005 at 11:59 AM | link to this | reply

Poetic,
Very true.

Does anyone complain about being held too much?

posted by AlienInsomniac on August 17, 2005 at 9:54 AM | link to this | reply

Lovelylovely
Things with Riel are good....great even...lol...I'm just using him as an example...he actually gave me the idea for this post without even knowing it. And if for some reason things don't work out, I still have my wonderful friends like you!!!

posted by MiaElla on August 17, 2005 at 9:53 AM | link to this | reply

Lol Mia...

I know just what you mean...Men I barely know are always doing this kind of thing to me.  And then they wonder why I drop them like hot potatoes!!

Best of luck to you...I hope things work out with Reil.

posted by lovelyladymonk on August 17, 2005 at 9:51 AM | link to this | reply

rgylford ,
if you keep her warm you won't need the socks ...

posted by poeticspoken on August 17, 2005 at 9:46 AM | link to this | reply

I know...some things are better left unsaid!!! .it's so funny because I just also wrote a post about "telling all"--are we the same person? lol.

posted by Julia. on August 17, 2005 at 9:42 AM | link to this | reply

Quirkyalone
I know....why must people insist on sharing everything......lol...

posted by MiaElla on August 17, 2005 at 9:39 AM | link to this | reply

He's admitting some pretty interesting things to you, isn't he? It sounds like you might want to watch his actions a little more than his words. As for people (men OR women) who want to divulge their number I say Why on earth WHY???

posted by Julia. on August 17, 2005 at 9:37 AM | link to this | reply

Poetic,
I'll be quite happy to put socks on her feet after I am done rubbing them.

posted by AlienInsomniac on August 17, 2005 at 9:37 AM | link to this | reply

Timmy
As in wiser and stable.....lol

posted by MiaElla on August 17, 2005 at 9:36 AM | link to this | reply

MiaElla
Soooooooo..............how do you feel about older men?

posted by TIMMYTALES on August 17, 2005 at 9:32 AM | link to this | reply

Uni
Looks like you will be joining rgylford in the witness protection program. Need more ammo I think! LOL!

posted by MiaElla on August 17, 2005 at 8:59 AM | link to this | reply

rgylford,
I don't know but maybe you should buy her a pair of socks....

posted by poeticspoken on August 17, 2005 at 8:59 AM | link to this | reply

Oh the webs we weave

Hmmmm. Sure, guys very often mold themselves to the girl they’re trying to get with. Perhaps it has spawned from the fact that it recent history, women were treated with the utmost respect and chivalry was not yet missing in action. Now, however, young men are not instructed in the ways of treating ladies as they should unless their parents decide to take that task upon themselves. And so, lacking the needed information to make a woman feel as she sometimes thinks she should, men find other ways of getting what they want. Namely, adaptation to the individual they’re after. They feel like there’s no other way they’ll get any, and even become proud of their achievements. That’s probably just one little piece of the whole puzzle though. There’s also the bragging rights, the false self-confidence boost and the fleeting moment of pleasure, just to name a few.

The vast majority of men don’t know how to treat a lady, and, sadly, many of those who do use it to take advantage of awestruck women. Boy, guys are jerks =P

posted by Unidentified_Hacker on August 17, 2005 at 8:54 AM | link to this | reply

Poetic,
If men are from Mars and women are from Venus, why are a woman's feet so damn cold when she's lying down with you watching TV?

posted by AlienInsomniac on August 17, 2005 at 8:52 AM | link to this | reply

Thanks, Mia
You do realize how rich you'll be after the book deal and movie?

posted by AlienInsomniac on August 17, 2005 at 8:50 AM | link to this | reply

rgylford

I'll cover your back while you run.....lol.....

-and if you don't survive, I'll tell the story of the one good man.....haha

posted by MiaElla on August 17, 2005 at 8:44 AM | link to this | reply

It's Pure-D, 100 Percent Manipulation
Sleight of Mouth.

Linguistic Legerdemain

They're assholes.

It pisses me off.

It's lies wrapped in an envelope of sensitivity. They say enough of the right things to get what they want. Then when a woman meets an actual decent, honest guy, she has a difficult time trusting him...and understandably so.

Okay now I've said it. I am putting in my application to the Witness Protection Program.

posted by AlienInsomniac on August 17, 2005 at 8:42 AM | link to this | reply

True, so true Mia,
but it sure is confusing.

posted by poeticspoken on August 17, 2005 at 8:35 AM | link to this | reply

poeticspoken

Yup...forced to share Earth..although it's not always so bad...

posted by MiaElla on August 17, 2005 at 8:29 AM | link to this | reply

Mia,
We are from two different planets, go figure why we don't understand each other at all...Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus.

posted by poeticspoken on August 17, 2005 at 8:25 AM | link to this | reply

Wiley

You're a brave man to comment on this post...jogging....you crack me up.....lol.....

posted by MiaElla on August 17, 2005 at 8:14 AM | link to this | reply

MiaElla
Got a feeling jogging is going to run over Riel. lol

posted by WileyJohn on August 17, 2005 at 8:11 AM | link to this | reply

mmm-w
It seems as though the men are afraid to respond to this post...scare tactics....hahaha

posted by MiaElla on August 17, 2005 at 7:55 AM | link to this | reply

Mia, Ariala Soles

posted by Ariala on August 17, 2005 at 7:54 AM | link to this | reply

wheatley1
I never expect too much from a man.  That's probably why they find me so easy to get along with....lol

posted by MiaElla on August 17, 2005 at 7:54 AM | link to this | reply

ladyofshalott
Everytime I think I have them figured out...they come up with something I could never have imagined....lol...I'm getting there though....

posted by MiaElla on August 17, 2005 at 7:50 AM | link to this | reply

Ariala

LMAO....I think that's called hitting the nail on the head

...I can see you running.....Nike or Reebok? lol

posted by MiaElla on August 17, 2005 at 7:48 AM | link to this | reply

you comment below on the married/not married games is so true! amazing...... this was a funny post, but i don't blame you... it would be a negative for me too...

posted by mmm-w on August 17, 2005 at 7:47 AM | link to this | reply

guys!!!!
i have a guy who played the women have been so nasty to me and cheated on me, but i'm still figuring out if hes for real, i think i'm looking for someone who's farly open to discussing their emotions he clocked on that and  would cry alot, it seemed so fake he even done it in front of my mum! i confronted him and he admited he was putting it on, should we be flattered that there trying to be mr perfect at the start becuase they know they want us and they hope after being with them i while we will just love them for who they are  they felt like this in the beginning and excepted us.  most men are looking for a women that will commit to them and love them unconditionally and hasn't slept with 2many men if they find that and find you attractive i think there pretty much done. it doesn't mean you will get anything from them except them.

posted by wheatley1 on August 17, 2005 at 7:47 AM | link to this | reply

guys!!!!
i have a guy who played the women have been so nasty to me and cheated on me, but i'm still figuring out if hes for real, i think i'm looking for someone who's farly open to discussing their emotions he clocked on that and  would cry alot, it seemed so fake he even done it in front of my mum! i confronted him and he admited he was putting it on, should we be flattered that there trying to be mr perfect at the start becuase they know they want us and they hope after being with them i while we will just love them for who they are  they felt like this in the beginning and excepted us.  most men are looking for a women that will commit to them and love them unconditionally and hasn't slept with 2many men if they find that and find you attractive i think there pretty much done. it doesn't mean you will get anything from them except them.

posted by wheatley1 on August 17, 2005 at 7:46 AM | link to this | reply

Mia
Hey girl!.....It sounds like Riel is trying to be upfront with you.  That's a good thing.  By revealing the game he USED to play.  I agree you don't want to know his number, it just makes things weird.  You'll always be thinking, well was I better than #16?.......AND men's games are easy to figure out, you just have to pay closer attention, they really aren't that complicated.  But that comes with experience.

posted by ladyofshalott on August 17, 2005 at 7:46 AM | link to this | reply

Men play games because they're horny...women play horny to get married.
Except me...I ran from it.

posted by Ariala on August 17, 2005 at 7:45 AM | link to this | reply

Rach

I guess you got lucky, huh?

LOL....it's funny....women play games to get married....men play games to see how many women they can get w/o having to marry them.

posted by MiaElla on August 17, 2005 at 7:44 AM | link to this | reply

LMAO
Yeah, game playing sucks. That's why, I think if anything ever happened to my husband I would just be happier alone, and lonely. I don't have the time or patience for the games that people play when dating...

posted by RachelAnna on August 17, 2005 at 7:38 AM | link to this | reply