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You could suggest she give you a call?
Just to see if she takes you up on it and how quickly? 'Course she may be of the mind still that "the woman doesn't call the man" but many women aren't these days...

posted by FactorFiction on August 15, 2005 at 7:50 AM | link to this | reply

You're completely screwed

If you call too much, that can just be creepy. If you don't call enough, she will think you are blowing her off. However, depending on the extent of her feelings for you, either of these extremes could change. If she really is into you, she will anticipate your calls with eagerness. If she isn't as into you, she will be glad that you don't call as much.

I would suggest asking her outright.

Good luck with that! :)

posted by Dreyma on August 15, 2005 at 7:33 AM | link to this | reply

I don't date, but if I did I guess I'd want a nice happy medium.  Calling every couple of days sounds okay, I think. Really it all depends on how into the person you are, and there's no way for you to know that yet, assuming SHE even does since you've never met.  I'm no help.  I don't know why I even tried on a foreign subject!    

posted by Holy_Grail on August 14, 2005 at 8:03 PM | link to this | reply